Even in ancient times, it was believed that insulting a loved one is tantamount to insulting the saints. For some reason now nobody thinks about it. Let's say something happened to a person at work, he comes home, and takes out his anger on people close to him. Now they even say that strangers are closer than relatives. For some, it is common to insult a brother, sister, mother, father. Meanwhile, esotericists argue that a person who is overwhelmed with negativity and pours it on his loved ones will face big problems in the future.
A person loses vitality because of his own thoughts and words. Many people know this, so they learn calmness, self-control, silence. It seems that to throw out anger, to express everything to a person in the face - and immediately feel better. In fact, this relief is temporary, and the biofield is destroyed.
How exactly does a person destroy his biofield?
He insults his mother
In no case should you scold, insult, teach life to the woman who gave birth to you. She sacrificed her health, it was hard, difficult, sometimes unbearable for her. Even if her words or actions now cause you anger or resentment, in no case should you pour this negativity on her. Remember, if you treat your mother so badly, you will never be able to find your true path, you will lose peace, sleep and strength!
He condemns his father
Another of the most significant people in the life of every person is the father. Even if he is not a very good person, has bad habits, abandoned his family, is strict, lives somehow wrong - you should not condemn him. It was your soul that chose to live in such a family, to be the child of this particular person. By the way, our souls choose for themselves those families with people in which our fate is similar in some way. Condemnation of the father can lead to difficulties in society, in achieving goals, serious illnesses and problems in money.
He criticizes elders
You are very lucky if you have grandparents, aunts, uncles - they are your protection, they are very wise, they are your teachers. And if you question their lessons, tips, experience, if you criticize and condemn them, then this is tantamount to putting their whole life in doubt. Do not insult your elders, otherwise you will deprive yourself of a quiet life and lose touch with your family.
He insults himself
It is true that a person is sometimes courteous to others, but disrespectful to himself. He scolds himself, calls names, humiliates, does not forgive for past mistakes. But, if you want to be happy, if you want to live better, then learn to love yourself. Praise yourself more often for something, indulge yourself more often with something, give thanks for everything you can. Everything is only in your hands. Self love is where it all starts. A person who does not love himself betrays himself, and this can deprive him of absolutely all blessings!
He accumulates resentment
It doesn’t matter who you are offended by, but the negativity that you have in your thoughts, in your heart, in your soul, begins to corrode you like poison. It is important to learn to forgive others and forget grievances. This can also include anger, envy, anger. They are able to put an end to your happy life. Learn to love and accept people for who they are.
Start changing your life, your attitude towards loved ones right today. Make up with your mom, apologize to your dad, call your siblings, listen to your grandma, spend time with your aunt. Forgive everyone, free your head and heart from negativity. Then you will be able to make your aura bright and radiant, which means that happy events will come into your life more and more often!
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