People often throw words of love right and left. I have several acquaintances who cannot stay in a relationship for a long time, and change partners, while being in each novel, they claim that they love a partner. I will not argue, this is their right, but I think that this is still not love. It doesn't happen that you loved and then fell out of love. If you fell out of love, then you didn’t love at all!
In youth, everyone guessed on a camomile: loves, does not love, loves... It is surprising that this issue is also relevant for adults, and even for those who have been married for more than 10 years. Do you also sometimes want to tell fortunes on a camomile in order to understand whether your partner loves you? Or maybe you want to tear off the petals so that the chamomile tells you if you love your soulmate?
You know, if you wondered if you love your partner, this does not mean that there are some problems in your relationship. We just grow, mature, become wiser, our views, our values change, and the world around us is changing too. And our bewilderment about our own feelings is only a desire to live consciously and be conscious.
There are 5 signs that will really help you understand that you love a person
you can endure
Every relationship has problems. The question is how lovers deal with them. Someone begins to freak out, leave home, take offense, and someone is looking for compromises and common ground. Difficult periods happen in any couple, and, by the way, it is then that you can understand whether there is love in a relationship. Sometimes you just need to be patient, give in somewhere, but, of course, within reason.
You don't pretend
If you feel good with a person, if you truly love him, then you don’t need to pretend, you won’t pretend to be someone you are not, you won’t hide your emotions. You will not be afraid to appear vulnerable, funny, stupid. You are not afraid to cry or laugh heartily at the second half. This is complete trust, confidence, love. We don't want to pretend to be around the one we love.
Are you afraid to lose this person?
Just think, what if your partner isn't here tomorrow? Will not be near, will not be in this world? The answer to this question should come to you immediately. If you experience sadness, pain, it becomes unbearably hard for you, then you really love this person. If you absolutely do not care (just be sincere with yourself), then there is nothing to even talk about any feelings. Those people we love, we are very afraid of losing!
you get better
Next to this person, you want to be the best version of yourself, grow, develop, move forward. Yes, everyone has difficult periods, but even in such moments there is a feeling that you are doing everything right, that you are going in the right direction.
You accept a partner
There are no ideal people. You are not perfect, and your partner is also far from ideal. But, if you accept it with all its flaws, moreover, they do not seem to you flaws at all, then this says a lot. You love his potato nose, burriness, slits, you calmly react to an open tube of toothpaste and hair in the sink, you are tolerant of his strange habits, manner of speech. What is this if not love? We love a person not for something, but in spite of everything. Perhaps your feelings flared up due to the fact that your significant other is not like everyone else!
I want everyone to love and be loved!
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