I am self-confident, love and appreciate myself! But that doesn't mean that I'm fine now. There are situations when I have doubts, but the truth is that I will never settle for anything less than what I deserve, I know my worth, I accept myself any and in different moments. And I try to get out of any situation with my head up.
Before, I just admired women who were not necessarily beauties, but they radiated this very self-confidence, they were so balanced, elegant, luminous. Now I am one of them. And I can clearly identify the things that absolutely every woman who loves herself does.
She doesn't talk badly about herself or others.
The words that we utter have tremendous power, destroying or, on the contrary, elevating. And therefore, either you need to speak only with a positive, or generally be silent. No need to discuss anyone, getting into the gossip of others. No need to talk bad about yourself, even if you have gained extra pounds or woke up in a not very attractive way.
She won't pretend she's fine
On the contrary, insecure women with a bunch of problems will pretend to be successful, they will create the appearance that everything is perfect with them. And the husband is gorgeous, and the children are the most obedient, and the work is amazing, and everything is fine with health. A woman who loves herself will not talk about her problems, but she will not pretend that everything is amazing with her either.
She does not compare and does not envy
When a woman begins to compare herself with more successful, beautiful, rich, she involuntarily begins to lose all joy. Sometimes the goals that others have achieved are unrealistic for us, so we should not become their hostages. A woman who loves herself will not envy someone else's appearance or success, but will simply be happy for others.
She won't be like everyone else
She has her own opinion, her own views on life and goals. She will not do what she does not like, even if society tells her to. Due to the fact that she does everything differently, many do not understand her. She can quit a high-paying job and start earning less, doing, say, creativity. She will always leave that place or from that event where she is uncomfortable, where she feels energy depletion. If a person mistreats her, she says goodbye and leaves. It's really hard to do, but when a person really loves himself, nothing stops him!
She will not be where she is not appreciated.
She will never stay in a relationship where she is humiliated, insulted, not appreciated. And this applies to both love and friendship or work.
She always takes care of herself
When we love a person, we do not get tired of taking care of him. And if a person loves himself, then he will take care of himself. Let's say you can eat fast food and other filth, do not play sports, lead an unhealthy lifestyle. But, when you love yourself, you will immediately understand what is harmful for you, and you will definitely give up everything that can destroy you. A woman who loves herself takes care of herself, eats wholesome food, allowing herself to relax periodically, develops, learns something new, she indulges herself and takes care of herself.
She glows with happiness
I used to be afraid to offend someone with my light, so I had to descend to the level of those around me. I even felt sometimes guilty for being happy, but as soon as I started to truly love myself, I stopped hiding and dimming my light!
I wish you all the very best!
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