How many couples broke up for reasons unknown to men. I once asked a friend: “Why did you break up?”, And he replies: “And I, to be honest, I don’t know myself.” And after all, you look at him: hard-working, kind, never scandalized, looks more than nice. And the question arises in my head: “what was she missing?”, But a strange family, as they say, is dark, and we cannot know for sure that there really was an ideal union, and the woman just got excited.
Of course, when parting, you need to understand the opinions of both parties, and not just one. And I will name 4 reasons that lead women to part with partners that are completely unexpected for them!
Community neighbors
A very common story. The couple has been living together for a long time, they have a well-established life, but in terms of relationships, they practically do not intersect at all, they may not talk for several days, not discuss their feelings and emotions. It seems that men are more than satisfied with this option. The food is always prepared, the clothes are washed and ironed, the children are washed, fed and combed, their lessons are checked, the house is in order, the wife, moreover, also works almost on a par with a man.
He comes home from work, kisses washed, well-fed and combed children, eats cooked dinner, and then goes about his business. There are no heart-to-heart conversations between a man and a woman, she tries to tell him something, share her experiences, and he brushes her off like an annoying fly. And then the woman's patience bursts, and she files for divorce, well, or reports a breakup. What a surprise in this case for a man, because everything, in his opinion, was good! How could she, what did she miss, this is a real betrayal, we have a family!
Of course of course! I've never seen women behave like this in a couple. Although they say that women are selfish and are looking for some kind of benefit in a relationship, in fact, everything we are looking for in a relationship is emotions, attention and care. And if all this is not there, then why be surprised that the wife ran away?
Constant female expectation
Girls or common-law wives can wait for years to be called to marry. And the partner is sure that it’s not time yet, that you need to wait more, that the stamp is complete nonsense, that the most important thing is feelings. Moreover, everything is very convenient for him, demand from her, as from an official wife: ironing, cooking, cleaning, sex, and in which case, he can always say: “I'm sorry, but you are nobody to me.” Sooner or later, women's patience bursts in this case too!
Disrespectful attitude towards women
In fact, a lot can be dated to the list of disrespectful attitude towards a woman. For example, swear words addressed to her, or neglect of personal hygiene, or broken promises. But women very subtly feel the very moment when they are no longer treated with respect. They endure a little, mentally giving the partner one more chance, then another, another, and then they just leave.
A man’s lack of clear plans and goals regarding relationships
If a woman, for example, has long been ready for the birth of a child, and a man keeps coming up with permanent excuses just not to have a baby, her regular questions on this topic are regarded by him as "brain blow". If a man does not talk about the future in which he is with a woman, does not have any specific plans and goals in relation to their union, then it makes sense then to live with him or meet, constantly being in some kind of suspended condition?
We, women, are able to endure for a very long time. As much patience as we have, absolutely no man has! And we can put up with what we don’t like for a long time, try to change the situation, point out mistakes to the partner, then endure again, then give a chance, and then we just leave. And then you don’t have to make a surprised face, and complain to your friends and family that you are for her, and she ...
No, it's your own fault!
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