In fact, it is very scary when there is absolutely no strength for anything, and you don’t want anything at all, nothing makes you happy, it becomes as if it doesn’t matter. There is no runny nose, no sore throat, and the head is in order, and there is no fever, but I just don’t want anything. Even the things that I really liked before. This is a very alarming symptom, and you should definitely consult a doctor.
When my friend was a little boy, he suddenly fell ill. No, not a cold that all the kids in the kindergarten catch every now and then. He had absolutely no pain, neither his throat, nor his head, and he didn’t even have a runny nose. He was a very calm and quiet boy, and did not complain about anything to his mother. Well, of course, does a child at 5 years old say: “I feel bad!” or “I have a breakdown!”? No. Children can tell where it hurts or what makes them sick.
And the boy was simply exhausted, he sat for hours in one place, reluctantly leafing through books or rolling his previously beloved typewriter. All the time he wanted to lie down, sleep, he had no strength for anything. He didn't even ask for food. And in the mornings, he obediently walked to the kindergarten with his mother by the hand, barely dragging his feet, and then in the evening he again walked home, barely alive, from the kindergarten. Mom asked the nurse in the kindergarten to examine her son, but she did not find anything wrong with him, no illness, and said that it was just such a calm child, apparently, he had some kind of turning point in his age.
But my mother did not calm down, she was worried, because she saw how her son was getting worse and worse. And then she got paid. They lived in poverty, without a father, without the help of relatives. So, she received a salary, gathered her son to the market, where they sold a lot of all kinds of sweets and juicy fruits. All this was very expensive, but the mother really wanted to somehow please her boy, to stir him up with something. She asked her son:
"Sunny, what do you want?" Look how many delicious things, choose whatever you want, I have money, a lot of money!
But the boy slowly raised his head to his mother and barely squeezed out:
“Thanks mommy, but I don’t want anything.
It was then that the mother realized that something serious was happening with her son. Of course, he cannot say anything on his own, and he must be taken to the doctors. And led. Spent my entire paycheck on good doctors, and found the cause of his condition. Indeed, my friend developed a serious illness. And he managed to stop, and almost at the very beginning.
This is so strange, because the boy had absolutely no pain, nothing bothered him, but the disease was almost asymptomatic and silently killing him. And his mother saved him. And they began to treat the boy, and were able to cure him. Three months later, he went to kindergarten with pleasure, ate his favorite apples, and told his mother a lot of all sorts of fictitious stories.
This disease is popularly called: "disease unto death." It does not manifest itself in any symptoms, the only thing is that you feel constant fatigue, and you want to sleep all the time. And you don’t want anything at all, even when everything you love and adored is in front of you. But no one will ask an adult what he wants, others do not care what is there and who has health. And the sick person himself considers himself absolutely healthy, because he has absolutely nothing to hurt! And there is no loving mother nearby, who would take her to the doctor and help cure the disease ...
And now I want to ask you! What do you want, what do you like, what would you eat now or where would you go? If you answer something, this is very good, but if you say that you don’t care and don’t want anything, this is a very disturbing sign. And don't ignore it!
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