When everything is perfect in a relationship, it seems that it will always be so. It's just wrong to think so. In any, even a strong relationship, omissions and disagreements can arise. The only question is how it is all solved. After all, someone is looking for a compromise, discussing the problem, and someone lets everything take its course, which leads to deplorable circumstances. There are signs that indicate that the couple is already on the verge of breaking up.
Everyone has their own life
At first, you spend all your free time together, and absolutely everything suits you, and then some kind of separation occurs. Everyone has their own interests, their own plans for the evening, their friends, and even when you are both at home in the evening, each one is doing something different, not paying attention to each other. It is clear that everyone should have a personal space, but if your relationship has become a solid personal space, then you can live without each other.
Lack of communication
If you stop talking to each other and only talk about everyday problems, such as who to take out the trash or take the children to school, then this is also not good.
No intimacy
Although they say that relationships do not hold on to intimacy, they will not go far without them. And, if you can safely not make love to each other for several weeks, then you are not sexually attracted to each other. A very wake up call.
you annoy each other
It is very bad when the person with whom you live annoys you in everything. When we fall in love, we accept a partner with all his shortcomings, and even touch him. And, if they began to enrage us, then love is slowly fading away.
Constant resentment
If it has become normal for you to be rude to your partner or call him bad words, or if he began to allow himself this, this is another sign that you are on the verge of a break. If at the beginning of a relationship we watch what and how we say, restrain ourselves, or apologize, in case if they didn’t restrain themselves, then over time all this pretense and accuracy can slip and crawl out insults.
Lack of respect
No love can last long if there is no respect in the couple. If you do not respect each other's opinions, interests, views, etc., is there any point in living together?
Lie
If a person lied to you once, then he will definitely continue to do so. And because of this, all trust will be lost, suspicions, omissions, resentment, humiliation will begin.
public humiliation
If your partner likes to belittle you in public, thereby also asserting himself for you at the expense, then this clearly needs to be nipped in the bud. Here and disrespect, and neglect, and lack of love.
Treason
In vain they call those people who were able to forgive betrayal wise. This is not wisdom, this is stupidity and lack of self-respect. And it’s not worth talking about any love here when a person wipes his feet on his soulmate.
All these signs indicate that your couple is on the verge of breaking up. But, do not worry, because there are two ways, and both of them are normal.
The first is to just sit down and talk about your relationship, find out what you don't like, express everything without offense, and maybe you can find a compromise. Perhaps some old grievances or some act led to the destruction of your relationship.
The second is separation. If you feel bad with each other, if you can’t find anything in common, go for reconciliation, improve your relationship, then parting will be the best solution for you.
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