It turns out that men and women have completely different ideas about what an ideal woman should be. We think that we should not only be well-groomed, but also represent something more. Is the same opinion held by our dear men? It turns out that they have slightly different images in their heads!
As a result of the study, in which the respondents were asked about what an ideal woman should be, both representatives of the stronger and weaker sex took part. And here are the poll results!
- Whatever they say, but in the first place for men, all the same, the external data of a woman. Although, who would doubt it, they love with their eyes. As many as 29% of men thought that the ideal woman should first of all be beautiful, by the way, only 12% of the women surveyed supported their opinion. And another interesting fact! Another study had slightly different numbers. So, the value of the “beauty” parameter for a simple woman is estimated by men at 38%, and, if we are talking about a spouse, then at 20%.
- The second place for men, oddly enough, is devotion and fidelity. This was the opinion of 24% of the respondents. But only 12% of women put these qualities in second place in terms of importance. By the way, some men also want a woman to be faithful, but not to show any jealousy. And 16% of respondents want to see devoted women who are not in a hurry to marry. It’s very interesting, you can’t show jealousy, they don’t marry, in general, they don’t promise anything, but in return they demand devotion. Is it fair?
- But 23% of men put kindness, the ability to show sympathy and responsiveness in the first place among the qualities of an ideal woman. By the way, the beautiful half of humanity agrees with the men surveyed, 31% of women also highlight kindness.
- Do not give all men smart women, only 21% of respondents put such a quality in the first place. By the way, it is not clear what exactly men mean by intelligence. Maybe it's a dissertation defense, maybe several higher educations, or maybe just the ability to push the right phrase in the right place? By the way, only 18% of women considered the mind so important for the ideal woman.
But 20% of women put the ability to be a good mother in the first place, 13% for diligence, 7% for humility, and men 7, 2 and 4%, respectively!
Well, a few more details. As many as 20% of men indicated that housekeeping is one of the main qualities of an ideal woman, only 9% of women agreed with them. And then there are 5% of men who are sure that a woman is simply obliged to give birth, and it doesn’t matter if she is married or just in a relationship.
Of course, from survey to survey, these data can fluctuate, as many people, so many opinions. For my husband, for example, in the first place appearance, motherhood, and then the mind and diligence
Summing up all of the above, we can say that most men want to see beautiful women next to them, certainly faithful, moderately economic and preferably not jealous. But for us, women, compassion, sympathy and motherhood come first.
And personally, I don’t even know which image to choose for myself as a model. If you adhere more to the male opinion, then you can turn into a non-jealous beautiful toy, and if you follow the opinion of women, you can become overly sacrificial, where it is necessary and where it is not. So I will be who I am.
What qualities do you think an ideal woman should have?
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