What should the father of a teenage girl do and how should he behave?

It is difficult with teenagers, it is not clear with teenagers. You need to be able to combine calmness and attention, patience and severity, friendship and authoritarianism. In the upbringing of a teenage girl, the role of not only mom, but also dad is important. The child is going through a difficult period, so you need to know how to behave.

Did you notice that when we were growing up there was no talk of adolescence? We didn't know anything was wrong with us, which is probably why so many adults have so many childhood traumas right now. In adolescence, the child's hormones are raging, and he himself does not know what is happening to him, a minute ago he wanted your affection, and now he asks you not to touch him. The races are crazy, and sometimes you don’t know how to behave properly. Today's topic is about the relationship between a father and a teenage daughter. What should you pay attention to, how should you behave and what should you learn?

Found on one of the forums a question from the father of a teenage daughter. He asked women how he could help his child survive such a difficult period. There were a lot of answers, I chose the most useful ones from parents of teenagers.

Dads, information for you!

1. You need to have an idea about feminine hygiene, about cosmetics and underwear. A man needs to be prepared for the fact that, although he is far from it, he will have to deal with all the female things. There may be "accidents" during menstruation. It is important not to scold your daughter for soiled sheets and clothes, not to make fun of her. You can just show how to clean everything. You can’t judge for the figure: too fat / thin, no breasts, crooked legs - don’t even try to allow yourself any negative and judgmental comments. As for cosmetics and underwear, just go to the store with your daughter, and professionals will help you.
2. It is important to help the girl to reveal her talents. Let her become confident in her abilities. No need to limit her desires. The world is so huge, and it opens up huge opportunities for every person. Try to teach your daughter not to take herself too seriously.
3. You must become an example of an ideal man for your daughter. After all, the father is the very first man in the life of a daughter. She will then choose a partner similar in something to her dad. And outwardly, and with similar habits, and with the same attitudes in life. Therefore, do not be afraid to spoil the girl, give her compliments, give gifts. Let her feel like a princess!
4. Start spending more time together

Your daughter must be sure that if some strange situation happens in her life, she she will always be able to talk with you, consult, she must know that dad will always support and help. But this does not mean that you need to bombard your daughter with questions and go into your own business. Become a friend to the child, and he will share what he wants.

1. Explain to your daughter the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships. It is important to discuss with the girl all the “alarm bells” that should alert her in relationships with guys. Tell them how you can get out of a dangerous situation. The child needs to know his personal boundaries emotionally and physically. And you also need to indicate that you can always help your daughter if something happens.
2. Learn how to do your daughter's hair. Yes, this item is not necessary at all, but you must admit, sometimes it is useful to know how to braid at least a braid and tie a ponytail. This will definitely give you a plus!
3. Don't run away from discussing sensitive issues

There will be times in a teenage daughter's life when she needs a man's opinion. Dads are often embarrassed to talk about intimate topics, and they try to evade, shift everything to moms, brush it off, move the topic to something else, or say something like: “you don’t need it yet necessary". This is mistake! But if you talk heart to heart with your daughter, you will definitely prove yourself as a loving and understanding daddy, and you can also prevent possible unpleasant situations.

What advice would you give to the father of a teenage daughter?

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