Why does everyone believe in this phrase that “love does not happen without pain”? Are you serious? In your opinion, love is constant suffering, is it some kind of feat, is it mockery and sacrifice? I don't agree with this. It is clear that any relationship requires work, it is important to learn to compromise, but what does pain have to do with it?
If you're in pain, it's definitely not love! It is impossible to justify bullying, violence and humiliation with love. This is about both physical and psychological effects. That is, if a man does not hurt you physically, but at the same time he allows himself to offend, humiliate, insult you - this is not love! It's torture he just gets away with!
It is clear that we are all mistaken, that there are no ideal men or women. But if there are true feelings between two people, there will be no humiliation and pain!
A real man will not humiliate his woman, he will love her entirely. He will accept it with shortcomings, flaws, sins of the past. He will always inspire her, motivate her to become better, help and support her in everything!
A real man will not consider a woman who could believe and trust him as one of the options. If he chose her, she becomes the one and only for him. He will be sincere, open with her, there will be no pretense, deceit and falsehood.
A real man remains devoted to his partner, even if there are so many successful and very convenient options around. He will not commit adultery, even if he is sure that no one will know about it. He can be trusted, and love, as you know, without trust simply suffocates.
A real man takes care of his beloved. He will never hurt her emotionally, much less physically. He carefully monitors his words and deeds, so that God forbid not to hurt his chosen one, so as not to cause her suffering.
A real man is reliable! When difficult times come, he will always remind his partner that she is the best, the most beautiful and the most perfect. He will be by her side, even if she made a mistake. He will gently correct her if she stumbles, but will not offend and humiliate.
A real man will never violate the boundaries of his beloved. This also applies to personal space and her body. He will never allow himself more if the woman is against it, because he knows that she is not his property.
A real man will not behave in such a way that his woman will cry. He will never mock her when she cries for some other reason, even if it seems stupid.
A real man wants his woman to be strong, confident, happy, radiant. He appreciates her for her uniqueness and does not try to correct her. Even if she is not like everyone else, he fell in love with her like that, so he will not allow anyone to humiliate her, laugh at her, and he himself will appreciate her for her unusualness.
You can always rely on a real man, no matter what binds his woman gets into, he will always help her. You can always tell him about your problems, share the most intimate and exciting, he will never ignore his beloved and make fun of her.
If you want to be with a real man, then you must also become a real woman. Not capricious, eccentric, hysterical, but one that can cheer up, motivate, support in difficult times. One who will not offend, humiliate and insult, one who will respect her partner, will appreciate him and show that she can be trusted!
Love to all!
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