You met a man, but began to doubt how you should behave with him. It’s just that in past relationships you remained yourself, but the partner pointed out your shortcomings to you, was shy about something, and maybe even called you stupid. Now it's very hard for you. You are afraid to open up, and again become not like that for a person. You are afraid that you will get used to it, but then you will get burned and again there will be loneliness next to you. The former partner considered a flaw in you even that you yourself never considered a flaw. You began to doubt that you were worthy of love. The fact that last time you were yourself now makes you think a hundred times over whether to open up.
You want a relationship, but you are not sure of yourself, you do not know how to behave. Maybe you should be yourself again, show yourself real, or you should not show your vulnerability, and it's better to pretend. But it’s more comfortable for you to be yourself, not to put on a mask, not to adapt to the tastes of a man. You have accepted yourself with your flaws, but you are so afraid that they will alienate others. And you want to say what you think, fight for what you believe.
And so you decide to still remain real, no longer counting on a relationship with the man you like. But he accepts you, he starts to love you for who you are. Nothing about you irritates him. Something in you was embarrassing to others, but he loves it very much in you. And you begin to calm down, you begin to realize that you just met the wrong people before.
You met a man and realized that what one person hated about you, another can love and appreciate. One was not afraid of losing you, and the other is really afraid of it. He adores you, exalts you, respects your tastes, loves your flaws. And you understand that you are fine, you are normal, you just fell in love with some wrong people who did not suit you at all.
You met a man and he told you the words you wanted to hear. Only this time it is neither false nor false, it is the truth. Because he began to prove his words with actions, because it is really important for him that you believe him. He is there when you need him the most. And now you can no longer doubt the sincerity of his feelings, you can not be afraid of anything. It became easy for you, because with him you are real, and he really needs you for who you are.
He wants to be a part of your world, he is ready to share his life with you. You have always waited for such feelings, although you did not fully believe in them. But now you can open up again, because you are sure that he will not leave. You are doing the right thing, because even if there is even the slightest chance that you are doing something wrong, this man really deserves it.
When you met him, you immediately realized that all your past mistakes were very necessary for you only in order to connect with him one day. All these mistakes have helped you to recognize a good person who is able to offer you something real! He knows that it will not always be easy for you together, that there will be mistakes, that there will be different things in the future, but he is still ready to walk his life path with you.
You met a worthy man who showed you that loving you is easy and wonderful, and he showed you what was difficult for the rest, it is actually easy for him!
If you've been burned in a previous relationship, don't be afraid to open up later. Because what one hated in you, the other will love and appreciate you.
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