Some women confidently declare. That all men are the same, that they have only one thing on their minds, that they cannot miss a single skirt. But really, you shouldn't talk like that about everyone. Yes, there are walkers, I do not argue, but there are also normal ones, and there are many of them. And it depends only on us, women, whether we will stay in a relationship with them for a long time or lose it.
So what does a man want from a woman in a relationship?
Praises and recognitions
Yes, men, like women, need compliments, it is important for them to understand that they are appreciated, that they are proud of them. Great praise for a man - to be attractive and take care of yourself!
It is important to thank a man for what he does for you, even if it seems like a small thing to you. If you start to be proud of your partner, he will be very comfortable in a relationship with you. And do not think that praise from your side can spoil a man, no, he will just feel necessary, loved and unique.
respect
If your man feels that you are rejecting him, or rejecting his career, his interests, what he loves, then it will be very difficult for him to love you. If you do not respect him and the life path that he has chosen, then he will begin to feel unloved next to you and begin to move away.
Intimate connection
Yes, intimacy is not in the first place, but without it, relationships in a couple will not be harmonious. But this does not mean that now you need to make love with your partner every day. It is simply important for a man to know that he has free intimate access to you. You know, as it sometimes happens, women, in order not to sleep with their husbands, come up with a thousand excuses from a headache to resentment for something. Under no circumstances should this be done. And to blackmail a man on this topic is also impossible!
Emotional connection
Yes, women often lack emotional connection in relationships. Because we are all made of emotions. We want to be pitied, to talk about love, to take care of us, especially when we feel bad. We want a partner to solve our problems, even if we can solve them ourselves. But men also need an emotional connection with their partner! Here's what it's about. Men are taught from childhood not to cry, not to be afraid, not to show weakness. But it is important for them that there is a person with whom they can calmly relax and honestly talk about their feelings. They want to be real close to their partner, talk about their secrets, show cracks in their steel “armor”.
If we talk about women, then they open up very slowly in an intimate way, but men slowly open up emotionally. To begin with, the representative of the stronger sex needs to check how the partner will behave when he “cries” for the first time with her. And, if she does not laugh at him, does not push him away, but listens, tries to understand, then he understands, she can open up completely. This is an important stage in a relationship for both men and women.
So do not say that men need only one thing. Not so, dear women, not so. It's probably just that you're behaving in a way that doesn't see you as someone with whom you can build a healthy relationship. Well, confess! After all, you, for sure, blackmailed your partner with intimacy, could speak unflatteringly about his appearance or behavior, there were no heart-to-heart conversations between you and you think that saying thanks to him for a washed mug is not costs? What do you want from him then?
A man will look for another woman with whom he will be warm, calm, comfortable. With which he can remain himself, which will appreciate, love, praise and be proud of him. So everything is only in your female hands!
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