So, you met a cool guy and you want him to "sunk down" and think about you day and night. Or your legal spouse has lost interest, and you really want to feel his attention and emotions of the first dates again.
The rules that will make a man think about you are very simple and they work even with those who are not particularly interested in you. Use at least a couple that are right for you.
1. Don't reply to messages right away.
How do you want to answer your loved one to the message a second after you received it. But, if you pause, it will show that not only his personality is in the zone of your interests. For those who are especially patient, try not to answer for 12 hours (unless, of course, the question is urgent). Ideally, reply to his second message. It sparks interest.
2. Do not text/call first.
A man, for the most part, are hunters, they are turned on by what you need to get yourself. Millions of years of evolution have programmed this desire into their genes. No matter how modest, shy and not decisive a man is, he will find the strength to write or call the one that interests him. Remember this once and for all. Because if you write off his indifference to shyness, then you will always be more interested in this relationship than he is. And he will understand that you yourself write / invite / take the initiative.
3. Let you have topics that you do not, under any circumstances, discuss with a man.
Many women devote a man to everything, down to women's affairs and personal details. This should not be allowed for two reasons: the first is that a man should not know details of this kind, this kills relationships worse than "everyday life", second - it will be intriguing for a man that you have something that you are hiding, he may not show it, but unconsciously he will be about it think.
4. Have your area of interest.
Let there be an occupation in your life that interests you, something that makes your eyes burn and absorbs your attention. A man is interested in a woman who is not obsessed with him, who has her own world and hobby. And when you completely dissolve in a man, he becomes bored and ordinary. You do not cause excitement, because you have no interests. And who needs a person without his inner world?
In short, don't focus on the man! Have your own circle of activities and some "secrets". In this case, you become more attractive and interesting.
When you do not run headlong to meet him, do not answer messages and call, leaving all your affairs, you become valuable in his eyes, you are respected and want to be closer.
And yet, it is not necessary not to take the initiative at all, everything is good in moderation. But, it is important to understand that the number of your steps towards each other should be equal, but it is better for the man to be the initiator, in most cases. This form of relationship is the most healthy and "ecological".
Do not push and do not be intrusive and then the man himself will reach out to you.
