Sometimes it seems that everything is going completely wrong, that life somehow passes meaninglessly and stupidly. And all because of the fact that a person got into some particular life situation. It doesn't matter what the situation is, what matters is how you feel about it. And you can get out of absolutely any situation in life if you feel uncomfortable in it, if you don’t see yourself in it, if something doesn’t suit you, you don’t like something.
You have every right to pick up and go from a city where you are suffocating, from a place that drowns out your light, from where you do not develop, where you are stuffy, bad and uncomfortable. You can make your life brighter today just by leaving. You can always take bags and start from scratch, only somewhere in a completely different city. You can change your own life with your own hands!
You have every right to change jobs. If you feel uncomfortable there, if you are not appreciated and respected, if you do not develop in any way, you can simply quit. Even if everyone around you tells you that you are making a mistake, you can look for what you like, what will bring you pleasure.
You have every right to stop dating or living with a person you don't love, who makes you cry, who pressures you, who treats you badly, humiliates you. Have you tried to fix everything, but it doesn't work out? Then you have to put yourself first and leave.
You have every right not to communicate with people who influence you negatively, with friends who do not appreciate you, if you are uncomfortable, you can just stop seeing each other, talking, you can just break the connection that you depressing. You may not communicate with people who do not support you, who do not help you, who simply suck all the energy out of you. You are entitled to it.
You can be kind to yourself, excuse yourself for both small and serious mistakes, admire yourself, love yourself, appreciate, respect. You can do what you like, hang out with whoever you want, live where you like, work where you feel good. This is your life, and if you do not start to change something in it, it will not get better!
You have the right not to live by other people's expectations and rid yourself of your own expectations. You can be yourself and not act to please someone else.
Don't think that leaving is bad, it doesn't mean that you give up, dropping your hands, it doesn't mean that you run. Sometimes to leave where you feel bad, where you feel uncomfortable, this is the best thing a person can do for himself.
Only in this way can you change everything around, change yourself, improve your life, discover the world around you, discover yourself, know yourself. Sometimes you need to leave in order to save yourself, so as not to allow yourself to get stuck where you feel bad, with those with whom you feel bad.
To leave is normal, it means to change, to open the door to some changes, new opportunities, your growth. You have the right to leave, you always have such an opportunity. Because you cannot become a happy person until you realize that you are finally where you should be, in the place and with those people who make you happy.
And you can also leave behind yourself, your past self, in order to create a completely new, different you! Do not be afraid of change, otherwise you will never become a happy person!
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