Experts have identified types of negative behavior that destroy any relationship. It is clear that we are living people, we can make mistakes, and all of us once in our lives used toxicity and negativity towards others. If you can recognize this, if you can work with it, you will be able to improve both your life and relationships with others!
Complaints and quarrels with the aim of humiliating or condemning a person
By themselves, that quarrels, that complaints are the norm. But when they grow into belittling others, this is already too much. Therefore, you must always keep this bar, do not translate your complaints into criticism and humiliation of others.
Instead of healthy communication, a surrogate
Ridicule, threats, pointing out the mistakes of the past, again humiliation - no matter how it happens, such communication destroys any relationship. If you have forgiven a person for a mistake, stick to it, do not poke him in what he did when the opportunity arises. In particular, do not try to look better against the background of a mistaken person.
Shifting Responsibility in a Relationship
It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship: friendship, love, family. In any case, both people must take part in their construction. If you begin to deny your responsibility for what has been done, you will shift everything to another person, you will only build up the atmosphere, intensify the conflict. Always think about whether you want to continue a relationship with a person or not?
Refusal to communicate
Yes, this is also a negative type of behavior when a person ignores, tries not to communicate and not notice the other. If there is a conflict between you, it will not go anywhere, you need to immediately sort things out.
emotional blackmail
This can be explained as unjustified expectations. When you kind of impose “fines” on a person or introduce “sanctions” for what he says or does not do what you want. If this is present in your relationship, then your relationship is unhealthy.
Not a lie, but an understatement
In a relationship, trust is very important, if it disappears, it is already very difficult to establish a connection. Yes, you may not lie to a person, but if you keep silent about the truth, this is also very bad. Do not evade, keep silent, do not finish speaking, otherwise you can undermine the person's trust. Always be honest, then the relationship will be positive.
Relegation of the person to the background
It refers to the relationship between a man and a woman. If you do not begin to sacrifice your time for the sake of a partner, if you do not give him your attention, then this will sooner or later lead to a break in relations. Don't make this mistake!
Confidence that relationships will always be easy
Remember, if there are any difficulties in your relationship, this does not mean that you are doing something wrong or that you will no longer be able to establish a normal connection. It's stupid to expect it to always be easy.
Confidence that your relationship will always solve your problems
Your friend, partner, parents, children don't have to solve all your problems. Try to do it yourself. And yet, you need to work tirelessly on relationships, otherwise they will quickly fall apart. Take responsibility for your bad mood, for your resentment, boredom, then there will be fewer problems in relationships.
Carefully analyze your behavior in relationships. Are you sure that you are doing everything right? Maybe you have some types of negative behavior? Can you admit it in the comments and tell us how you deal with it?
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