Not everyone is lucky with the work team. There are those unlucky people who are secretly hated, discussed behind their backs, and even try to sit down. Maybe the reason is that the person is a successful employee, or maybe that he, on the contrary, pulls the whole team behind him.
How to understand that a colleague hates you?
Can you feel it
You can't fool your intuition. If it seemed to you that someone does not like you, most likely this is so. Maybe your colleague communicates normally with everyone, and rolls his eyes with displeasure at the sight of you? Or do you feel his constant gaze on you?
Colleague does not smile in your presence
As soon as you appear in the team, your colleague makes a displeased face, although before that he talked nicely with everyone and smiled. Something is definitely not right here.
Colleague avoids eye contact with you
According to psychologists, if a person avoids eye contact with someone, then he definitely does not have warm feelings for that. If your colleague behaves this way, then most likely he is simply trying to avoid you, and with his eyes he is very afraid to betray hostility towards you.
Your colleague is avoiding you
Situations are different. For example, you are heading to the elevator in the office, you notice a colleague walking behind you, you are waiting for him, but he prefers to go up the stairs.
Colleague gossips behind your back
This is not uncommon in work teams, although such behavior is clearly unprofessional. And a person spreads rumors about someone he doesn’t really like.
Colleague does not notice your presence
He never greets you, does not say goodbye, it seems as if he does not know your name at all. You are an empty place for him, he constantly ignores you.
Colleague answers your questions dryly
Well, after all, you are in a work team, and it cannot completely ignore your questions. But you will never get detailed answers from him, they will be short and unambiguous: “no”, “yes”, “I don’t know”, “ok”, etc.
A colleague sends you negativity non-verbally
This is the rolling of the eyes at the sight of you or when you say something, averting the eyes, a smirk.
A colleague does not invite you to business lunches
Well, or to corporate meetings, and then pretends that he simply forgot to do it, or invited, but you yourself did not come.
A colleague communicates with you only by mail
You can sit in the same office, and even at neighboring tables, but instead of asking you something directly, he writes letters to your mail. It's kind of stupid!
Colleague always disagrees with you
He perceives with hostility all your words, ideas and requests, he can interrupt you, not let you finish the phrase. You may have some brilliant idea and a colleague will understand it, but still he hates you too much to agree with you.
Colleague steals your ideas
He hates you, sees you as a competitor, and tries to constantly steal your ideas in order to draw attention to his person, and to show everyone that you are mediocrity.
A colleague creates groups against you
He gossips a lot behind your back, turns others against you, and even creates small groups against you, where you, of course, are never called.
Colleague does not inspire confidence in you
You have data that you need to share with colleagues, but one of them you don't trust. He seems to be able to use this information against you!
It is difficult to work in a team where there are people who hate you. Some do not even stand up and quit, others suffer further, and still others achieve success, doing the ill-wisher in all respects!
Has there been a situation in your life when one of your colleagues did not like you?
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