Sveta's mother is a very calm, peaceful and kind person. She never argues with anyone, tries not to conflict. She never raised her voice to her daughter in her life. And in this she was always very different from all the other members of her family. The rest, like my mother's sister and my grandmother, are real loudspeakers, so noisy that I don't want to communicate with them directly.
Sveta herself is also in character in her relatives, but her upbringing went to her mother. And this means that she can stand up for herself, but very rarely goes to screaming.
A very long time ago, Sveta's parents bought a dacha, and they grew everything that gardeners should grow there. Relatives also wanted to lead there, but Sveta's father immediately repulsed them all.
Then the parents began to have health problems. Sveta's mother began to have pressure to jump, and dad had something with his heart. In general, doctors forbade them to work in the garden and in general to engage in hard physical labor. And last fall, my father passed away. Sveta helped her mother in every possible way, looked after her, but she began to drive her away:
“Well, enough with me, like babysitting. I'm fine, I can definitely do housework, and I always have medicines at hand. Come on, get on with your life!
Then Sveta decided to fully return to her studies, otherwise she missed a lot. But every weekend she still came to her mother and tried to help her with something. The women talked a lot about the dacha. The mother was very worried that everything froze there, fell into disrepair. They agreed to go there somehow. But a month passed, then she was alone, and Sveta's mother did not remind her of the trip. May has already arrived, the weather is good, it would be possible to go, especially since Sveta has a car.
Then Sveta decided to ask her mother directly:
- Mom, when are we going to the country?
- Oh, Light, I've been feeling a bit unwell lately, let's wait a bit.
But Sveta always understands if her mother does not finish something, so she quickly talked to her. It turned out that my mother's sister with small children and an adult son had been living in the country for a long time. Sveta got angry, it was clear that her mother's sister simply took advantage of her condition after the death of her husband and poor health, and begged for keys from a relative.
In the morning, Sveta went to the dacha. There was no one there, and the woman thought for a long time how she could open the house. Then she took out papers for the dacha, and, since she was the co-owner of her mother, she called a locksmith and changed the lock on the doors. When Sveta entered the house, she was simply shocked. Around the dirt, full of toys, scattered clothes. There was no trace of the repair at all, there was devastation and disorder all around. A good expensive sofa was damaged, the wallpaper that Sveta once glued together with her dad was torn off. Because of all the Light she saw, she just squatted down and burst into tears.
There used to be a lawn in the yard, but my aunt turned it into beds. Not only did she get the keys to the house from her mother and settled there, she also put things in order and turned the cottage into some kind of barn. Sveta photographed all this horror, and went to her mother, where she showed her everything and said sternly:
- She will call you, do not pick up the phone, just give her my number and that's it.
Sveta's mother tried to object, but her daughter could not be stopped, she decided to save the dacha from impudent relatives. Finally, my aunt called, started yelling, because the locks in the country house had been replaced. But Sveta did not even restrain herself, and told her aunt to pay for all the damage she had done, otherwise she would not receive the things left in the country.
"I won't pay you anything!" I’ll break the locks and take everything,” the aunt continued to shout.
“Well, go ahead, then I’ll write a statement against you for burglary,” Sveta calmly replied.
- Is it possible with relatives? Are you not ashamed? And you don’t use it yourself, and they regretted it for us, but we still looked after the dacha, - the aunt calmed down a bit.
But Sveta did not listen to her, she only said that she had two days to compensate for the damage, otherwise she would definitely file an application against her for causing damage to property.
The next day, my aunt's eldest son called and offered to help. He bought a new sofa, removed all their belongings from the dacha, glued wallpaper, hung new curtains. Sveta no longer carped about the little things, and she also decided to say nothing about the lawn to him. This is how Sveta managed to save her parents' dacha and punish her insolent aunt.
Do you think that the woman did not act harshly with her relatives?
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