You met him. There is real chemistry between you, passion, attraction! Your eyes glow with happiness, everyone around notices it. You spend a lot of time together, you really miss when you can't see each other. You are sure that you have finally found the love of your life. But why are you so sure that your chemistry will definitely lead to a stable and strong relationship? Unfortunately, this is not always possible! Why?
Because intimacy and passion aren't everything
You seem to be perfect for each other! You feel each other in bed, and you feel good! Well, what about heart-to-heart conversations? Do you have them? Can your partner tell you about their feelings and emotions? Can you calmly tell him some incredible stories about you from the past?
Because relationships are routine
Now your relationship seems like a breath of fresh air in this difficult routine life. But you must be prepared for the fact that as soon as you begin to live together and share life, the chemistry between you will subside a bit. You'll have to work, pay bills, argue about who walks the dog and cleans the cat's litter box, you argue about the toilet seat being down. You will have to face many problems in your life. Therefore, if there is only chemistry between you, then this may not be enough to build a strong relationship!
Because being sexy all the time is exhausting
You will want to wash off your makeup at night, soak in a warm bath, and fall asleep soundly. You don’t want to get up early to have time to apply makeup until your lover wakes up.
Because the chemistry between you is mysterious, spontaneous and sometimes crazy
And in relationships, responsibility and stability are valuable in the first place. And, if at the time of the beginning of the relationship, huge expensive bouquets of flowers were something incredibly romantic for you, then in the future you will figure out in your head how much it costs, and consider your partner irresponsible and not adapted to adequate deeds.
Because you may miss out on someone who really suits you better.
Chemistry between people arises spontaneously, when they still know each other quite poorly. But real stable relationships are born gradually, they also gradually develop, every day you get to know a person more and better. But if you get distracted by all this passion and chemistry, then you can really just miss the person who is more suitable for you in a relationship!
'Cause you can't rely on chemistry
In a relationship, you have to solve a lot of problems, when people, after chemistry and passion, face some everyday issues, rose-colored glasses fall off them. Because this is life! Chemistry won't help with financial matters, it won't help with trust, or it won't decide which one of you gets to take out the garbage.
Because in life everything is not like in the movies
How women love these snotty TV shows where an ordinary girl meets her "prince" and stays with him to live happily ever after. But that only happens in movies. In life, everything can be completely different. The reality is that passionate lovers remain so, rarely anyone goes further, or even any connection collapses as soon as some domestic issues have to be resolved.
Do not hurry! Don't rush into the novel. It may seem to you that you have met the love of your life, but can you build a truly strong and stable relationship?
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