Yuri and Marina have been married for 7 years. Immediately after their marriage, their parents helped them purchase their own home. The apartment was brand new, renovated, just move in and live. So they did. In that area, the young people did not know anyone, they simply greeted everyone who came into their entrance and met them. So they met Lyudmila. This woman lived above the guys on the floor above. She lived there with her elderly mother. At first, Marina really liked the woman, and they began to communicate often.
Lyudmila did not work anywhere, she needed care for her mother, and besides, they had another apartment that they rented out. This money and my mother's pension was enough to live on. Luda often ran to Marina like a neighbor. When Marina gave birth to a son, disaster struck. Her father had a stroke, he needed a lot of money for medicines, injections and so on. Therefore, Marina needed to go at least somewhere to work. But the child at that time was only a year old, and babysitting services are quite expensive. Then Lyudmila offered help, asking for a purely symbolic fee.
And so Luda helped repeatedly, while the son of Marina and Yuri was growing up, she never refused, and there were even cases that she helped out with money in debt. And Luda's mother was sick and sick, and died two years ago. Lyudmila was left completely alone: no brothers / sisters, no father, no children, in general, she had no one else. The woman herself is 38, she has never been married, because she devoted herself to her mother, and she had a specific character, which will be discussed later.
So, Luda became lonely, and she practically did not get out of her neighbors. Yes, Yuri and Marina were very grateful to her, but it was already too much. Marina came home from work tired, Yuri also had no time for guests in the evenings. All they wanted to do was lie down and lie down. And then every day Lyudmila comes, and let's tell all the gossip and news. And Marina generally stopped watching the news in order to be less annoyed, so Luda brought them to her “on the tail”. And the trick is that Lyudmila was very fond of complaining: about prices in stores, about the government, about neighbors, etc. Well, just like an old grandmother.
And after all, you can’t tell her not to come to visit, it’s wrong, she’ll be offended, but she helped so much. Therefore, the couple began to develop a plan. Yuri came up with the idea. He had a colleague at work, the same age as Lyuda, single, without children and ex-wives. And he also just loved to complain about everything.
The decision was made to bring the two together. Marina and Yuri came up with some kind of holiday, such as the anniversary of the relationship, and invited guests. Of course, there was no certainty that something would work out, but hope still glimmered.
At the appointed time, the guests arrived. Marina laid a very tasty table, and everyone sat down to celebrate. Half an hour passed, and Lyudmila started her hurdy-gurdy:
- Have you seen what prices are now for light? It's just mind-boggling. Everyone is pulling from us, pulling, even if you sit in the dark all day, otherwise you will wind up too much.
Yuri's colleague picked up the wave very quickly:
- I completely agree with you, Lyudochka. Such prices now for utilities, just awful! Before it was good...
This whole conversation lasted about two hours, glasses were filled in parallel and salads were eaten. How did Yuri's colleague look at his interlocutor, and how did she look at him! Here are two pair of boots!
In short, everything worked out. That evening, the man went to spend the night with Lyudochka, and in the morning, happy, together with Yuri, he left for work. A month later, the couple got married, and then went to live in another area! Recently, Luda called Marina and thanked her and her husband for her happiness. I am very happy because I met my love! And Marina and Yuri are so happy, finally, peace will reign in their house!
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