Once I called a friend. She should give birth in January, her belly is healthy, barely breathing. So I called her and asked how her health was, and it turned out that she was running around the supermarket, buying groceries.
- I have to go to the hospital tomorrow. Yes, I have a planned cesarean. My health is okay, I move slowly, but no, it's not hard. But I will return home with my daughter very soon. How we are all waiting for her!
Deeply pregnant Natasha wandered around the store, simultaneously talking to me on the phone. And she came there to make a good purchase. She slowly collected food, and carefully put them in the cart. Around people also bought something, bypassed her with a huge belly, looking at her as if she were insane. It's time for her to give birth, and she goes shopping, a crazy woman.
- I'm in the store now. I went to the largest supermarket, here it is easier to move around, and there are much more goods, a good choice. The earring remains alone for a week. Who will feed him while I'm in the hospital? Now I’ll buy food, and go home to the stove. How good it will be for him later, there is a microwave oven, he warmed up his food and ate it!
- I'm in a car, don't worry. I'll take everything right on a trolley to the trunk, sit down, and go quietly. Don't worry, pregnancy is not a disease! And I feel quite normal!
Natasha sighed heavily and hobbled towards the cash register. On the way, she still talked to me on the phone and along the way picked up the goods from the shelves that she had forgotten to take before.
“I’m thinking, the borscht should probably be cooked. I will definitely stick on dumplings and dumplings. I bought vegetables for the salad, took cheese, boiled and smoked sausages. Well, so that my husband is not hungry. Although, I remember the last time he didn't eat borscht, came and poured it out. Oh, he’s even too lazy to even heat food, so I’m just worried about him how he will cope. Maybe I’ll cook some ear for him, I don’t even know? Well, it's not like getting instant noodles for him, will he get a stomach?
- I told him not even to do anything around the house, and not to wash the dishes. I'll come and wash it. She asked her mother, she will run to him a couple of times, see how he can, how can she help. And the mother-in-law is useless to ask for anything, in childhood she cared little about him. Oh, you can also bake pies, you don't even have to heat them, with potatoes, with sausages, with cabbage he really loves!
Natasha went to the checkout counter, breathing heavily, she was massaging her lower back, after all, she had a deadline, it was not easy to move around the shops.
“Don’t worry, I’m fine, I can handle it.” I’ll return home now, and lie down, rest a little. I understand that Seryozha will cope without me, but I still want to take care of him, I like it, and I don’t want to worry about whether he ate or not.
My friend and I said goodbye, then I called her again to make sure that she got to the house, and that's it, she's already in the hospital. I just can't understand such women. How can you take care of someone to the detriment of yourself and your health? It was really hard for her, very soon she will give birth to her daughter, and it seems that all the care for the baby will also fall only on her shoulders. And Seryozha will continue to lie on the couch, periodically asking if she cooked borsch for him, and if she fried pies with cabbage! Where was her husband at that moment when she was buying food for him? I wonder if he's not ashamed at all?
After all, a woman in such a state needs to think about her well-being, about her child, and not about her hubby eating. Is he a three year old child? Doesn't know where the shops are, doesn't know how to use money, doesn't understand how to turn on the stove, microwave, and has no idea how to rinse a plate? Or am I still wrong? Maybe pregnancy is really not a disease?
Do you think my friend's behavior is correct?
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