Tanya is 30 years old, she is not married. Everything was engaged in its development, as a person, studied, worked. As a result, she has a great job, a high salary, her own car and a two-room apartment. She met with men, but she was never married.
Last year she met Alexei. The man was a little younger than Tanya, but she did not pay any attention to it at all. He looked after her so beautifully, showered her with compliments, so she melted.
Alexey lived outside the city. He has his own car, donated by his parents, and he gets to work on it. Although I preferred to go by train, because there are always traffic jams in the city.
Last month, Alexey proposed to Tanya. We talked with her on this topic, she said that she understands that her watch is ticking, but is not going to follow the stereotypes established by society. I do not blame her, because she is a great fellow. Tanya is not afraid of loneliness, and she is not alone, she has so many friends who can really be called real!
In general, Alexey made her an offer, she took time to think it over, and offered to live together for now to see how it was in general. Tanya's apartment is fully equipped, because she never counted on anyone, she did everything for herself. Once a month, a friend bought food, and she also got a drop from her grandmother from the village. Why am I all this? To the fact that Alexey, in fact, came to everything ready.
The move was planned for the weekend. Tanya did a general cleaning, cooked goodies, and was waiting for her man. A trial version of her married life began ...
But things didn't go as she expected. On the first day, Aleksey called Tanya after work and asked if she needed to buy something. She asked to buy something for tea. In the evening the man came with the eclairs, and for the rest of the day he was indignant at how expensive they were, and how little cream had been put in there.
The next day we went to the store, and Tanya paid, then for a couple of days they did not go to the supermarket, then again Tanya paid for everything. The next day we decided to boil potatoes, and Tanya asked her “husband” to buy herring for her. And again indignation, how expensive everything is, how bad everything is. In short, when the food ran out, Alexei was in no hurry to buy them, he began to eat at his parents. It was, according to a friend, just awful. At her suggestions to go to a cafe, he began to grumble that everything was expensive, he did not buy groceries for the house at all, Tanya paid everywhere.
In general, she endured a couple of weeks, and asked her "husband" to move out, refused to marry him, and does not answer the phone from him. Because you can't. I think everyone here understands that the man is very greedy. And my friend didn't want money from him. Well, it’s wrong that she supports him and herself, and he will buy something once a week, and then he is indignant at how expensive everything is. And how could it have been overlooked at the moment of courtship? But Tanya says that Aleksey gave her good bouquets of flowers, and he paid himself in the cafe. But as soon as he began to live together, his real nature crawled out.
All that Tanya said to the man when she decided to leave is that they have different paths, and that they should live separately for now. And that's all, he did not begin to find out anything, packed his things and moved out. And, as Tanya herself says, she is very glad that she did not make a mistake and did not give the man consent to the marriage.
So, girls, before you connect your fate with someone, try to live together, get to know a person better in everyday life. Then there will be fewer sufferers who dream up for themselves in pink glasses, and then cry because of unjustified expectations.
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