Everybody says that life is a complicated thing. But in reality it is simple, we ourselves complicate it. How do you get rid of this? How to start living in peace?
Here are ways to make your life easier
Don't torment yourself with your past
The past cannot be returned, it left us pleasant memories, and also an experience, possibly unpleasant. Your mistakes in the past should create your wonderful future, and you don't have to constantly reproach yourself for them. Nothing can be changed in what has been done, but you can change your future, just relying on the mistakes of the past.
Focus on the important things
What is most important to you and what does not require special attention? Get rid of all unnecessary things without regretting anything!
Focus on your productivity, not the work itself
In other words, the result is important, not the time you spend on achieving it. Just before that, you should ask yourself, is it really worth it for you to spend time and energy on what you work in? Unnecessary work is not worth doing, even if it seems urgent to you.
Give what you yourself want to get
Go ahead and don't expect anything in return, then you will get much more. And you must give people all the best that you have, what you yourself would like to receive, then you will also receive it. If you want love - give love, if you want friendship - learn to be friends, etc.
You don't have to meet other people's expectations
You can never please everyone in a row, there will definitely be people who will be dissatisfied with your words, thoughts, and your behavior. So stop meeting other people's expectations. Concentrate on your goals, and also on how to mean a lot to someone important to you.
Listen to your heart
The heart directs us to do the right thing. Sometimes you just need to turn off your head and enjoy life, doing what our heart tells us!
Create your space
Get rid of all that is unnecessary, of the things that you do not use, in your home and at your workplace there should be order. This way you will not be distracted by strangers and protect yourself from stress.
Act effectively
Try to adjust your system of actions. Cleaning system, orders, documents, e-mail, etc. Make it simpler and more efficient, then all your work will be as effective as possible.
Let everything around you be less perfect
Life is not perfect, like all people, like you. And that's okay! Are people in our world rewarded for excellence? No, we are rewarded for doing good. Therefore, stop looking for the ideal in everything, but just do good and useful deeds.
No more drama
Drama is uninteresting, stupid, nervous. Therefore, get rid of everything that leads to it, including the people who suit it. There are people who can make your existence much brighter, more fun, more interesting. Do not spend money on those who suck all the happiness out of your life!
Don't worry about what others think of you.
People often do not enjoy life because they torment themselves with thoughts of what others will think of them. Therefore, they speak so as to please others, and act in such a way that, God forbid, they would not be condemned. Do not be afraid to make simple decisions, live the way you want, and not like everyone else. Otherwise, your life will stay in one place, and nothing good will ever happen in it!
You yourself can make your life easier!
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