There was such an opinion that living in a private house is much better than in an apartment. Many people sleep and see how to buy a huge mansion with a garden, a backyard, and maybe a swimming pool. But is it really good for women to live in a private home?
I must say right away that, of course, a private house is prestigious. But only for a man! If you have a private house, and a large one with all sorts of different outbuildings, you are really cool! But as soon as you come across everyday life, you will understand that not everything is so rosy. Especially women will understand, because absolutely all worries and troubles will fall on their fragile shoulders.
Why is it not so great to live in a private house?
If you are going to build or buy a house, it’s a big one, right? So big, so that there is more apartment, and even steeper, so that two floors. Well, just anyone's dream! Have you ever wondered how much time and effort you will have to spend on cleaning such a large area? And on the site, you also need to bring comfort and cleanliness. Yes, perhaps a woman's husband is a homely, economic one, but will he, say, plant flowers? Is a courtyard beautiful without flowers?
The house can be within the city, but if it is somewhere in the suburbs? You will need to look for a clinic, school, kindergarten, and so on. If everything is far from home, you will need to buy a car. And, if a man leaves in the morning by car to work every day, then his wife will also have to get a license and buy a car. The costs will rise dramatically.
In terms of repairs and communications, there are also continuous expenses. You have repaired the apartment from the inside, and that’s all, but the house will have to be repaired outside, roofing, painting the facade, and so on. Do not forget that you will need to conduct electricity, sewerage, water - all on your own.
And the neighbors? It is only an illusion that neighbors are not heard or seen in private sectors. As soon as you eat, you will have neighbors, dogs, screaming children, and picnics, and barbecue. We'll have to put up a fence, a big one so that nothing flickers before your eyes. And also do not forget about laying the road, if there is none, and access roads.
If the husband is often away, for example, he is a sailor or goes to work, and is absent for several months, the wife literally begins to survive in this mansion alone. And she has to do everything around the house herself. Imagine, take your children to kindergartens and schools, have time to work, then back, then cleaning, a vegetable garden and other delights of life in a private house. Is it hard? You have to think about hiring a nanny, driver, housekeeper. And again, some expenses.
By the way, if you have a large house, some relatives will definitely want to move to you. Perhaps the children will grow up, get married, give birth to children, and stay with you so as not to spend money on housing. And there, a new car, there is no more space in the garage, cats, dogs, guests of the children. Absolutely no freedom! Or, on the contrary, you will buy / build a house with a large territory so that your children can live comfortably and spaciously in it. And then they will take it, and they will all disperse, and you will remain alone in your mansion.
And what are the advantages?
Your products? Fresh air? What else? I was thinking something, but I didn’t come up with anything. Yes, it’s good to go to someone’s house in the summer, to a private house, to fry a barbecue in the yard, to sit late on a bench near the house. But to live, and from morning till night to be engaged in a vegetable garden, cleaning and other delights - no, thanks. Here in the apartment you do not have time to do anything, as I imagine that I would also have to weed the grass, water it, dig - it makes me shiver!
Therefore, the conclusion is this! If you have a lot of money, then living in a private house is a sweet thing. I hired all kinds of workers, and you enjoy the clean air, your food, barbecue on holidays. And, if you have an average income, you will have no time to work on the site, it is physically difficult, it is costly, and eats up a lot of time!
It is interesting to listen to you on this score!
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