There are so many people who are sure that nothing in the world is worse than loneliness, that there must be a soul mate, that without a partner a woman will be the most unhappy. And it would be okay for people to just think so in their heads, and be silent. So no, they condemn, pity the lonely, not even realizing that for a woman, living alone has its advantages. In contrast, family life can negatively affect health, state of mind and life in general, according to researchers. But the bonds of marriage are even harmful to the psyche.
I’ll say right away that I’m not about myself now, I don’t need to justify my loneliness, because I have a family and I’m happy. It's just that there are relationships that really spoil your whole life, and then it's really better to choose loneliness.
Here are the benefits of being alone
A woman can be happy
All these articles in magazines and on the Internet about how a woman felt bad until she met her lover, are complete nonsense. Single people feel much happier than married people, according to the researchers. You should not chase stereotypes and listen to society pressing on you. No one has the right to decide for you whether to run down the aisle or not, if you are so comfortable, live as you lived, and do not listen to anyone. Happiness does not necessarily lie in a husband, family, children ...
It is much easier for a woman to maintain her figure in order.
Well, what to hide. Somewhere six months after marriage, women gain a little weight, and after 4 years on the scales they are already visible with a plus of three to five kilograms. Do you know why? Because they relax, you no longer need to correspond to ideals, here he is, dear, sniffing next to him, you think he added a little, it's not scary ...
Woman finds time and opportunity to play sports
According to statistics, it is single women who are much more likely to go in for sports. I personally, at one time, even envied my unmarried girlfriends who managed to go to fitness. I didn’t have enough time for this in general, then the children, then work, then home affairs, then some plans with my husband. Now, thank God, I finally escaped. Yes, there is much less time left when you have to cook for the whole family, when you need to work with children, when you want to pay attention to your spouse ...
A woman is more likely to meet friends.
Fortunately, we have friends, the same family as we are, and, as I feel sorry for the women who were forced to stop communicating with childhood friends after marriage. Very sad. But unmarried women have the opportunity to constantly communicate with their girlfriends in the network, and to meet with them personally, while married women prioritize time with their husbands ...
Women have fewer money problems
A modern woman is able to provide for herself, and she also spends exclusively on herself! While married people have to spend almost everything on children, husband, food and so on. This is true, spending on loved ones is, of course, a pleasant thing, but ...
Women are more likely to have a career.
Oh, how many women I know who could have built a brilliant career, but instead jumped out to get married and settled at home! Not everyone is given the ability to do themselves, and to establish life in the family. It is much easier for single women to build a career, achieve success, and, by the way, they can still build a relationship, only a little later ...
Women are not in danger of a broken heart
No one will break the heart, disappoint, or hurt. Accordingly, there is less stress, and less likelihood of acquiring cardiovascular diseases! This is the truth that you cannot argue with ...
Do you agree that unmarried women are much happier?
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