Recently, it just became scary to open my mouth. All such sensitive, immediately offended, pout their lips. Of course, there is nothing wrong with apologizing to a person if you really made a mistake. But sometimes it becomes a habit. Some get used to the fact that everyone apologizes to them, others immediately ask for forgiveness for any of their words and behavior. As soon as someone didn’t like something: “Sorry!”. But should this behavior be abandoned? No, there are things you shouldn't apologize for!
If it’s not your fault, no, you don’t need to apologize. You are a person, you have your rights, and let's use them without regrets!
This is what you shouldn't apologize for
Non-standard solutions
One is expected of you, but do you act differently? Doesn't your environment like it? This is not your problem, you have the potential, and you have the right to do as you see fit. Even if it is unacceptable for someone, old, and maybe stupid. You shouldn't care. People are accustomed to condemning others, hanging labels, they like to advise how to act and how not. Even if they give you advice with the best of intentions, only you yourself know how good it is for you and how bad it is!
Self love
Never apologize for putting yourself first. You have the right to take care of yourself, love yourself, satisfy your needs. If you do not do all this, then you will not be able to help anyone. You must have your own inner reserves of love, courage, happiness.
Own plans
Only you yourself decide what to spend your strength, your potential, your money on. You have the right to make your own plans, and do not let anyone meddle in your affairs. And you have the right to make a decision without looking back at others, without thinking about what others will think, what they will say, how they will react.
Intimate relationship
You shouldn't be shy about having an intimate life. You have the right to talk about it. In our society, some kind of prohibition has been imposed on such topics, and women have been taught to be almost an appendage of men, and the men themselves have been inspired that they are driven by animal desire. All this is complete nonsense! Intimacy is fun, burns calories, relieves stress! You do not have to adjust to the stereotypes of society, find what exactly excites you, and you do not need to be ashamed of your soul mate.
Straightness
Each person's opinion is unique. And do not hesitate to express this opinion. You have the right to say what you think is necessary, and you should not apologize for being blunt. You think this way and not otherwise, you have no need to pretend and count like the rest. You have a say, just remember to respect.
Refusal
The point is that you don't have to apologize for saying no. Learn to speak it. If you don’t like something, if you don’t want to do what you are told, feel free to say “no”. Do not think that you can offend someone or you may not be understood, only an egoist is capable of arguing in such a situation.
Desire to develop
Some people have enough education and one stable job, but you feel that you want more. And you should not stop yourself, fearing that you will not be understood. Develop, move forward, you are a growing personality, and you can offer the world something more every day. Unleash your potential and make your dreams come true!
What else do you think you should never apologize for?
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