I have a lot of girlfriends who deliberately chose loneliness. And they don't want to be pitied. Why? Because living alone is much better and more useful, and there are reasons for this.
Why is one woman so much better off?
She feels happier
And these are not just words, but the results of research carried out by scientists from New Zealand. They studied the lifestyles of women and men between the ages of 18 and 94 and concluded that those who were single felt much happier than those who were married. And another study concluded that a long marriage brings more negative emotions to a couple than positive ones. And, if people are not satisfied with their relationships, they often become depressed.
It is easier for her to maintain weight
According to scientists who also conducted the study, women gain an average of 3 kilograms of weight immediately after marriage! The rest significantly gain weight during four years of marriage. According to experts, the following setting operates here: once everything in life has worked out, you can relax.
She goes in for sports
When a woman does not have a soul mate, she will choose a walk, jogging, fitness instead of a hearty dinner. This is also the result of research. Lonely people in fact often go in for sports, but those who are married do not find time for this.
She has more friends
Very often married women have to sacrifice their relationships with friends for family life. That is, they choose husbands, not friends. Those who have never been married, on the other hand, have strong and reliable relationships with friends. And few people know that the more friends a person has, the less often he gets sick. It's all about constant social communication, which helps you relax, drive away stress, and erase diseases.
She has fewer money problems
It's one thing when you work and spend only on yourself, it's another when you have someone to spend on. According to scientists who have conducted studies on 2,000 adult couples, married people often fight over money. Somewhere 76% of spouses admitted that at least once in their life they lied to their halves, downplaying income or spending. And this is stress.
She is more successful in her career.
Very often people have to sacrifice their careers for the sake of relationships. And someone, on the contrary, at the very beginning of their professional development, refuses dating and marriage. By the way, American unmarried women without children earn about 15% more than married men! Of course, because relationships do not prevent them from focusing on their careers. Work first, and you can make a strong, healthy bond later. In our society, men are mainly tuned in to building a career, but all around the girls are predicting an early marriage and the birth of children.
She suffers less from romantic anguish.
If a woman lives alone, not being in a relationship, she experiences less suffering and experiences romantically. As a result, she then has fewer heart problems in adulthood. An unsuccessful marriage does a lot more harm to a person than a good one does.
She has more time for herself
Family life involves spending time not on yourself, but on your husband and children. You need to cook lunch, dinner, take everyone to kindergartens and schools, go to work, clean up, devote yourself to your husband. In general, there is practically no time left for yourself.
So, if a woman is lonely, this does not mean that she needs to be pitied or urgently introduced to someone. This is her deliberate choice, and she is much happier than many women who have many passionate romances or are married.
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