You can't get him to take you seriously if he doesn't want to. You will simply torture yourself, and you will not achieve anything. If he directly tells you that he does not have time for dates, that he is not interested in relationships yet, believe it, it is so! No need to shoulder the burden of such a strange love!
If a man loves you, he will call you himself, come to you, confess his feelings to you, find time and opportunities for you, he will try to impress you. And there is no need to beg for love from someone who did not promise to give it to you.
There are warning signs that can help you understand that a man is not taking you seriously. After all, it is better to immediately have an idea of what lies ahead of you!
The man says he doesn't need a relationship, but you're dating anyway.
Very dastardly behavior. First, he immediately tells you that he does not want to be bound by any obligations, and then he begins to look after you. And you like him so much, and you admit the thought that suddenly he will change his mind. But it's best to stop right away. If a man says he doesn't want a relationship, then he really doesn't want one!
The man flirts with you, but does not make dates.
He smiles at you, winks, shows signs of attention, but you never go anywhere together. Yes, he is always glad to see you, but you don't go beyond some short meetings. This is a sign that his intentions towards you are not serious.
The man says he has never loved anyone in his life.
But women are attracted to such men. They seem to them to be vulnerable, unhappy, because they have not experienced such a great feeling. And I want to believe that a man just has not yet met his woman, and you will probably think that you are the very long-awaited one! But, dear young ladies, come down from heaven to earth. If a man is already over 30, and he says that he never loved, then he simply does not need a relationship.
The man is texting with you, but you have no dates.
And some men generally like to correspond, they write compliments, ask how the day went and how are you, but somehow they don’t find time to meet. What if he writes to several at once? Maybe you shouldn't waste your time?
The man says he is divorced, does not want a relationship, but agrees to try to see how far you can go
Like "I try, it works - I did it." In general, it is strange that such a thing can happen. Of course, if you also have a divorce behind you, and you, like a man, do not plan a relationship, then go ahead, try it. But I am afraid that you will still hope that everything will work out for you, and this is your mistake.
The man orders food home, but does not take you to the cafe.
He says that he is so comfortable. Of course, it’s more than convenient to have a delicious meal on the couch in front of the TV, then get caresses from a woman. Or maybe he doesn't want to be seen together? Or does he even have someone, and walking with you in crowded places can ruin his whole life?
You always arrange your dates yourself.
He does not receive offers to meet, you think that he is just modest and shy, and you take everything into your own hands. And this happens over and over again. But why doesn't the initiative come from him? Most likely, he is just spending time with you. Yes, he is good with you, fun, interesting, but he is dating you just like that, expecting that someday he will find a worthy woman. Maybe not worth filling in other people's gaps in life?
If a man behaves this way, then it's time to open your eyes and understand that he does not take you seriously! Get away from him before you fall head over heels in love!
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