Do you think that a loser is someone who constantly lies on the couch and does nothing? But no. A loser works, and a lot. But in order for him to achieve at least something, sometimes he has to do everything much harder and longer.
And also, instead of fighting for their dreams, they start to hesitate, back down, and for a long time hesitate to take a step. The reason for their failure is the constant doubt in their abilities.
Here are the habits of a chronic loser.
Impatience
He does not know how to wait at all, he needs to either get everything now and at once, or he will begin to doubt himself and stop following where he was going. Panic begins, in general, any obstacle for losers, this is almost the end of the world! By the way, sometimes they start to retreat just a step away from their victory!
Maximum effort on the wrong things
I don't know how chronic losers do this, but they always choose the second from the main thing and the secondary. Then they make every effort to implement it, and then they have another failure. To losers, important things seem generally insignificant, somehow simple, as a result, they underestimate the key tasks, and do the wrong thing. They also dive deeply into the little things that distract them.
Pessimism
Losers see only what they don't have and what they want. They generally do not know how to appreciate what they already have, do not see their small victories, and they suffer from this. They think they are always unlucky.
Procrastination
Not only are losers very slow, but they also have a terrible habit of procrastinating. And this postponement can happen over and over again, until the very last minute, and in the end nothing is solved. The loser waves his hand with the words: "I can do it this way."
Fear of change
Losers find it very difficult to crawl out from under their shell in order to move forward. Yes, they want, of course, for their life to become better, for something to change, but they are terribly afraid of change. This is why they resist any change, repeating that they have already tried it, and they did not succeed.
A lot of things to do at the same time or nothing to do
Losers cannot calmly do one thing, they grab onto one thing, then something else, and then something else, and as a result, they do not succeed anywhere. Their other side, they can give up on everything, and do nothing at all. So to speak, their two opposites. But doing several things at the same time is also like doing nothing.
Self-doubt
Due to self-doubt, losers are able to give up their dreams, they think that they are not capable enough, smart, strong. Losers are also afraid of failure!
The habit of complaining
A lot of losers spend their time complaining. Instead of going and doing, they can whine for a long time and tearfully, how unlucky they are, that they have failed and will not succeed again. But is it possible to achieve success if you do nothing, but only whine? Of course not! Complainers drive others crazy. Not only do they prevent themselves from achieving their goals because of their complaints, they also inhibit others, and also infect them with their eternally decadent mood!
All these habits make life very difficult for people. But, if you work on yourself, then you can change everything for the better. To do this, you will have to try and endure! There is no need to postpone your life for later. After all, you can rewrite the scenario of your success right now!
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