If earlier it was believed that only women are masters of manipulation, now things are different. Men also know how to manipulate, and sometimes they do it so professionally, as if they had specially trained somewhere! Let's look at 5 phrases of male manipulators and try to figure out how to deal with it.
This is how men manipulate women
"If you prove to me that you can be a good wife, then we will go to the registry office."
Well, the female nature cannot stand being in the status of a bride or common-law wife for a long time. Until you wait for a marriage proposal from a man, you will turn gray a hundred times! And the ladies have to make hints, or even say directly that it’s time to go down the aisle! Do you remember how in fairy tales? The prince achieves the hand of the princess, performing feats. In our reality, everything is exactly the opposite. Sometimes women need to show all their best sides, if only a man called in marriage.
If a woman has low self-esteem, then, of course, she will dance to the tune of her boyfriend: cook borscht, clean up, please in bed, please to the fullest! But it is worth considering, do you need such a prYntz, which you need to achieve, maybe let him go looking for another servant?
"Who else needs you like this, besides me!"
He said, and hugged his woman. This is what? Well, probably overweight, with stretch marks on her stomach after childbirth, unemployed, unmarried at the age of 30. The manipulator will be able to come up with a whole bunch of reasons why no one will need his lady except him. And he condescended to her like that, and accepted what she was. The feeling that the woman is a complete insignificance, he picked her up somewhere on the street in rags, fed her, warmed her up, washed her, and now he thinks like that.
Men specifically support women's low self-esteem by highlighting their shortcomings. This is a very successful manipulator move that can shut up many young ladies. If a woman constantly doubts herself, she will take criticism of the manipulator for granted, and a confident lady will quickly shut up this “ideal” man!
Manipulation of children
Here I didn’t come up with phrases, or rather I couldn’t choose something generalizing. So, we are again accustomed to the fact that only women are capable of skillfully manipulating children. Suppose a man is going to divorce his wife, and she told him: "But what about the children," and he thinks like this: "sure, I can't see them every day." But men are also capable of behaving in this way. And also such a manipulation on their part: they want to sleep with a woman without protecting themselves, and then they aggressively perceive their partner's pregnancy, calling her the manipulator.
Sometimes, wanting to maintain a relationship with a woman, men deliberately "start" pregnancy. And also the following phrase can be attributed here: "Who needs you with children?" or "The children will stay with me."
"You yourself wanted us to have equal rights!"
And here we are talking about the fact that now women are striving to equalize themselves in rights with men. And so, if such a commander settled in the same apartment with a man, but at the same time she either does not work or earns less than a man, he has questions. "Isn't it time for you to go to work?" and something else like that. Well, the lady goes and works, like her partner, but she continues to work with the child herself, do her homework. And a man does not fit, this is "not a man's business."
It is also manipulation, based on the fact that either we have equal rights and go and work, or stay at home and don’t work, but be quiet, I will always be more important and right in everything ...
"If you..., I'll go to another!"
Here, perhaps, you will think. Or maybe this other already exists in nature? And again, insecure women with low self-esteem begin to adapt to their partner, pleasing him in everything. And what if you don't always match his “if”. And then he will suddenly say to you6: “if you don’t get younger ...” and what, will you become urgently younger? How?
The conclusion from all of the above can be made as follows: the best and, perhaps, so far the only effective way to cope with the manipulation of a man, is a high adequate self-esteem. Only when a woman begins to love herself, becomes confident in herself, and will be able to just get up and leave this mess, no one can manipulate her!
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