We are used to feeling sorry for women who do not get along well with the opposite sex. But few people think about what is going on in a man's head when time after time he remains alone. What's on his mind and how does he perceive the gap? Men don't cry! It seems that they generally calmly leave the relationship, and just move on. But is it?
First, a man, having entered into a new relationship, says: “Everything is bad for others, but everything will be different for me, my beloved is not like that and I’m different.” But some time passes, and he begins to realize that his beloved, in principle, is no different from other women. Or maybe he does not understand, but reproaches himself, and begins to have an affair with someone else, entering into a different relationship.
It turns out that for a short time men pretend to be proud and calm. At one point, they seem to see clearly, and many questions appear in their heads. It's like always looking at the world with poor eyesight, and then putting on glasses and seeing the brightness and clarity of absolutely everything. Everything becomes so clear! The insight of many men is very frightening, but someone really begins to live for real.
And the man who has received his sight asks himself the following questions:
- If they say that marriage is the meaning of life, then why is there such a large percentage of divorces in the country, and a third of them are by decision of women?
- If family and children are the meaning of life, then what should a man do when, after a divorce, a woman leaves and takes the child for herself?
- Why do almost all women dream of getting married, but do not want to be married?
- Before going to the registry office, women often force men to prove their love, and that the relationship to them is serious. Why then, when a man wants to request a DNA test for paternity, women are against?
- Both get pleasure from relationships, then why should only a man invest more time and money in them?
- If a woman does not want to work, and does not want to do household chores either, then why marry such a woman?
- If women and men have equal rights, then why do men retire 5 years later?
- Why do women have such high self-esteem and is it always inversely proportional to what they can offer their partner?
- What do women divorced with children count on, showing their inaccessibility and ambition, if there are many young and beautiful girls around and without them?
- Why should a man by the age of 30 have his own car, apartment and high income, and a woman should not have anything if both have equal rights?
- If feminists are so aggressively opposed to men and insist that they do not need them at all, then why do they continue to enjoy the benefits that men have created?
- Why is it bad when a woman meets a man for money, but when for things and gifts is it normal?
- If a bachelor has no problems with money, and a married man goes to his wife's entire salary, then why marry at all?
- If a man is good alone, why does everyone call him a loser?
- Why do women talk about equal rights, and even belittle men in some way, but at the same time believe that a man in a relationship should earn 2-3 times, or even more than a woman?
- When will women realize that there are simply not enough wealthy men for all of them?
- Why is a woman who walked all her youth, not counting sexual partners, is surprised that she is not taken to marry?
- Why does a woman have the right to develop, to do what she likes, and a man is only obliged to work and should not have any other interests?
Unfortunately, many women really try to crush men for themselves in order to make their own life comfortable and convenient at someone else's expense. I do not blame them, it is only on their conscience. But the truth is, why do some ladies go to men with their long lists of "must" and "must", and they themselves are not ready to give anything in return?
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