It would seem, well, why would anyone need to pretend that there are feelings? Are there such cruel shameless people who are able to play like this? Unfortunately, there are many of them. Of course, women can pretend that they love, but today we are talking about men. Let's try to figure out why he is pretending!
In fact, many women live with men who don't like them. And here the question arises. Does the woman herself understand that they do not have serious feelings for her, or does she really think that everything is fine? I think he understands. But why would a man pretend and lie? He simply has his own motives and reasons for that, but he will not admit, but will say to you that you have invented something for yourself.
Here are the reasons why he pretends to love you.
The man himself does not know what he wants from you.
Moreover, he himself does not know what he wants from this life! And next to you, he is calm, comfortable, warm, not lonely, so he believes that staying together is right. Maybe he thinks that you are too good for him, but he is afraid to be left alone. Therefore, he decided to pretend, instead of taking everything and tearing it up. Or maybe he believes that someday feelings will come to him, and he will truly love you.
The man has no plans for the future.
He just has no plans for the future. Therefore, he is holding on to the little that he already has, that is, for your relationship, for you. You have become for him something unique and permanent, and he does not want to lose you either.
The man proves something
Not you, but yourself or other people. He proves that he is doing well, that his life has developed normally, that he has a soul mate, like others, that he is a serious man, that with a beautiful woman next to him, etc. Here we can assume that he is very not sure of himself, but he needs you so that he can feel himself needed, loved ones.
A man showing off
You are a very beautiful woman, intelligent, successful, perhaps many would like to be with you. And he is so proud that you are not with someone, but with him. He just wants to be envied.
He has personal reasons
Sometimes it happens that a man does not need love, but a sacrifice nearby. Maybe he wants to make you suffer, wants to make you dependent on him. This is easy to spot. At first he is kind, attentive, caring, but over time the mask falls off, the only problem is that by this time you are already head over heels in love.
It's time for him to have children
That's simple, so banal. He would not have begun to build a relationship with you, but the clock is ticking, the kids are hunting, and then you turned up. Pay attention, if he often talks about children, about the need to give birth to heirs, then most likely he just wants to continue his family line.
He wanted to make his ex jealous
He has an unpleasant parting behind him and love for another woman that has not yet extinguished. And he uses you only for the purpose of making the ex jealous. Then the man will flaunt your relationship, post beautiful posts on the Internet so that the woman can see and she wants to return it.
He coveted your money
Unfortunately, this also happens. Maybe you have a good apartment, but he has nowhere to live, you have a car, a good income, but he is somehow a bit tough with that. So he is trying to improve his life with the help of your money, and for this you just need to pretend that you love.
Society puts pressure on him
All of his classmates, classmates, colleagues, colleagues have long been married and have children. And, although in men the biological clock does not tick so quickly, the pressure of society does its job.
A man needs sex from you
You don't need to get to know anyone, look after anyone in order to get what you want. You can always come to you, even without flowers and gifts. Regular sex life, no problems, but you can pretend to be in love ...
It hurts, disgusting from all this, but it happens. But this does not mean at all that he tolerates you. Perhaps he is comfortable and good with you, but for this it is not necessary to love.
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