Not all men are brave and courageous. Many of the stronger sex begin to shy at the sight of a charming beauty. How to subdue a shy man? What is the right way to flirt with him if he is not sure of himself, but he likes you? There are ways!
Many men, due to their shyness, are faced with a real problem - they cannot find a woman for themselves. Most often, they communicate on dating sites, hiding in the Internet from the object of admiration, and making themselves super macho. It is much easier to relax on a dating site, and in a calm atmosphere, while surfing the Internet through a gadget, you can calmly communicate by answering questions. Sometimes shy men specifically choose for themselves the same shy girls.
Well, what about reality? How to deal with such a shy person? First you need to understand if he really likes you.
Use eye contact. Look a man straight in the eyes, if you are not interested in him, he will not look at you, if he does like you, he will look, but he will start to look away. Many women find it so cute!
When you catch a shy man's gaze on yourself or when you lightly touch him, he starts to blush. This means that you are worried about him.
Look at the position of the arms and legs! Putting your hands in your pockets is a way to protect yourself and make you feel safe. And foot to foot speaks of a man's insecurity in a particular situation. Definitely, he is nervous around you, which means that you are not indifferent to him.
So, now to the ways to conquer the shy girl!
- Talk to him about his hobbies and interests. Before making contact, you can study his page on the social network. There you can find what the man is passionate about, what interests he has, what inspires him. In the conversation, support these topics, but let the man feel like an expert in a certain direction. So his shyness will quickly disappear.
- Take your time with the date. Still, we came to the conclusion that the easiest way to meet a shy man is on the Internet. So, let's say you've already met. Do not try to immediately call the object of sighing on a date. He may refuse you. He needs a certain time to get used to you, to your communication, to the idea that you will soon need to meet. Yes, you can write to him that you will meet soon, but do not rush to make an appointment.
- On a date at the movies, not a restaurant. A shy man needs a calm, relaxed environment. Although there are a lot of people both in the cinema and in the restaurant, the cinema is still quieter. You can avoid embarrassing moments and your meeting will be calmer.
- Show your man that you are as nervous as he is. This way he can feel more confident.
- Compliment the man, just gently. Yes, men need compliments too, and shy ones in particular. You can say something about his appearance, mind, say that you are comfortable with him, that you like to communicate with him.
- Make it clear to your man that you like him. Sometimes a flirtatious look and smile may not be enough. Therefore, you must be prepared for the fact that you have to take the first step.
- Be patient. There is no need to rush things. Let everything take its course. Give him time to get used to you. You should not immediately after the first date hint at the second, do not rush to confess your love, even if you suddenly realized that he is "the hero of your novel." Building a relationship with a shy man is a long-term project. Give him more personal space, open up to him gradually.
If you succeed, then you will understand that it is worth it. Shy men are as shy as romantic. And they are also faithful, and in a relationship they will gradually open up from different sides. They do not require much attention to themselves, they know how to listen, they are very gentle, caring and anxious.
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