Contrary to the opinion that children do not choose their parents, I will say that this is wrong. From an esoteric point of view, the child's soul chooses its own parents. She herself chooses the family through which she will come to our world. This choice is meaningful, there are no accidents. The soul itself chooses where to live, with what people, which path to take. Therefore, it is not the parents of the children who teach, but exactly the opposite.
The esoteric theory that souls choose where and with what message to appear in the world is a ground for multiple reflections. The child is the karma of the parents.
It happens that a child chooses a very difficult fate for himself, for example, is born with some kind of developmental defects, deficiencies, diseases. And this is not so much a punishment for his parents, but a way for their admonition. This means that there was no other way to stir up adults, open their eyes, make them think.
Life itself speaks to us until a child is about 16 years old. Therefore, everything that happens to them, everything that they tell us, everything that they do - should make us think. This is our karma. Moreover, girls come to the world to teach their fathers, boys - mothers.
Here's a story from life. The young couple had a daughter with congenital blindness. Everyone around was perplexed how it was with such lovely people, and such grief, no one could understand why they had to receive this. Young people constantly posted such photos on the social network, they are cute, funny, kind, which means that they are also good people.
And then the man's mother volunteered to help a couple with a blind baby. The young did not refuse. The grandmother came every day, and what she saw and heard shocked her. No romance, no well-being, nothing perfect. On the contrary, tension, quarrels, silence for days. Man and woman lived like a cat and a dog. And to see this was very painful ...
And not only the man's mother was hurt to see this, but also the baby. And the child chose the karma of a blind man for himself, with the hope that the parents would figure out why this happened to them. But they were just deaf.
Of course, people are mostly skeptics, and rarely combine physical manifestation with mental cause. And almost everyone watches the show "The Battle of Psychics". Work-home-work, and almost no one crawls out of such an eternal dream of being. But this cannot last forever. You will not have time to look around, and old age is already on the doorstep.
And what will remain in the memory? Wedding, vacations, success of the child. What about your own successes? All these material goods are not counted, they are success in the eyes of people, but what exactly are we doing from the point of view of the Eternal? What do we remember and what did we do?
A baby is born, and you spend days at work to provide for it. He does not see you, he has no connection with you. This is more about dads. And mothers are not better either. There are ladies who drag their children to the doctors, stuff them with drugs, whatever you want or not, and you will get sick even more. In the heads of people there is complete devastation.
Here's another story of a single mother. She had to pull everything on herself, snatching at least somewhere a pretty penny for the baby. And the child did not crawl out of the sores. Isn't it worth thinking about the fact that the baby lacks maternal love? There is no father, mom is always at work, he is alone. After all, no one thinks about this. So the single mother still regained her sight. She took another job so that she could spend at least half a day with the child. Yes, there was less money, but they managed.
But the hard times never came. A single mother is the karma that the child has chosen for himself. And the woman removed fear from her head, she trusted Fate, and began to understand what her son wanted. And he just stopped hurting, completely. And then I went to school. This is what works wonders - awareness of the situation. As soon as we change our perception, immediately the world around us begins to change.
It is a pity that most people still do not want to understand all this, consider it stupid, and simply twist a finger to their temples and run on about their business. Just somehow senselessly living their lives ...
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