All these things help to make life so much better, to make it real! You may even save many years, time, and money that you could spend reading books written by spiritual leaders and various mentors. I don’t want to seem omniscient, but you just start to understand some things with age. What if my experience will help someone!
Tips to help you learn to live for real
Be polite and kind
It is clear that no one likes rude people. And many are rude everywhere, in public transport, in a store, at work, they are rude to neighbors, friends, relatives. What are you trying to achieve? What do you show by your behavior like this? Now it is so difficult to meet a polite person, it is very sad. If you disagree with someone, you do not need to be rude and rude for this, and, of course, you should never let go.
Don't be afraid to take risks
You may be afraid to do what you have planned, and therefore put it off until later. But, if you don’t take the risk, you won’t know whether you will succeed or not. Either you learn to take risks and live for real, or you continue to constantly avoid everything, waiting for death.
Don't hide your feelings
If you like someone - tell me, if you love your loved ones - do not be silent. But at the same time, try not to throw tantrums if things don't go according to plan. Both the clogging of feelings and the outburst of negativity are extremely detrimental to your life.
Say "love"
Talk about your love to your loved ones, and prove your love with deeds. It's not difficult!
Work with full dedication
If you already take on some business, then do it purposefully and diligently, otherwise, do not take on it at all.
Help others
Just like that, without expecting anything in return. By the way, this way you can heal the wounds in your soul and begin to feel much better.
Don't be lazy
Yes, you can have days of laziness on weekends, on vacation, but on other days you cannot afford to be lazy.
Eat Healthy Food, Exercise
Not to say that I am for a healthy lifestyle, but you still need to think about what you are absorbing. You can afford to go overboard during your holiday events, but choose healthy foods the rest of the time. And move more: walking, running, swimming, fitness - all these have a positive effect on our body.
Stop hating
Even if people have done you a lot of bad things, do not try to hate them. Hatred is harmful, it eats away at the soul of a person, like an acid. Just let go.
Life is not fair
Yes, it's worth understanding. And try to squeeze the maximum out of any situation, trying to improve your life. So you yourself will become better.
We don't all get what we want
And this, too, must be accepted. Nothing can be done about it, because life is not fair. You can be content with what you have. Sometimes this is enough for a person to be happy, and nothing more is needed.
Get up earlier
This rule applies to business days. Get ready for work calmly, without haste and twitching. But on weekends you can sleep longer.
The world doesn't revolve around you
We would like the opposite, though. Unfortunately, your place in history, like mine, is not so important in the overall perspective. So, you should be more modest, and remember that other people also get hurt.
Think and decide for yourself
Don't let people force their opinions on you. Because it may happen that you will be used. Think with your head.
Money can not buy happiness
Sometimes millions do not make a person happy. Of course, we should strive for prosperity and move up the career ladder, if possible. But you shouldn't expect happiness from money. Happiness can be found in communication with good people, in love for others, in a hobby.
Can't change - let go
Do not torment yourself with negative thoughts, constantly worrying about a situation that has happened. Do something positive if you can't change anything.
Listen to the music
Just try to listen to the words of your favorite songs. Listen to good music, where there are emotions, history, real meaning.
Go forward to success
You can't wake up one day and get everything you want. You will make mistakes, fall, but you must not despair, you need to get up, dust yourself off and go forward to your success!
Less TV and phone
Turn off periodically gadgets, TV, and enjoy the peace and quiet. Receiving negative information from the outside will not pass without leaving a trace on your thoughts and psyche.
There are no ideal ones
We all make mistakes, but it gives us a chance to learn something and become better.
Do not envy
Envy, like hatred, will just eat you up. Learn to be happy for others, it's easy.
Find an outlet for your energy
Draw, sing, dance, run, write poetry, cook. The more you find outlets for your energy, the better!
Stay yourself
You are a unique person, such as you simply does not exist. No need to repeat after someone, imitate someone, repeating behavior and appearance. You are who you are, and remain yourself in any situation.
Such simple truths will change your life for the better and help you to truly live!
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