As wisdom does not come with age, so it should not be confused with the mind. An intelligent woman, it seems, knows everything in the world, and acts as she sees fit. The wise one analyzes before taking a step, and she always chooses to be happy instead of being right in everything.
Is it possible to trust a person who considers himself right in everything? I think this is impossible, because rightness will always be more important for him than a loved one. Therefore, if it is so important for a smart lady to be right in everything, and if she thinks that for this she needs to part with a man, she will part.
How to be relaxed next to an intelligent woman? This is difficult to do, because she, without even thinking, will poke at any oversight. Even if the miss is more than minor. Therefore, a man strains so as not to blurt out too much, so as not to do something wrong, to always remain at his best. This is very difficult.
But a man already has quite a lot of stress in his life: he solves various issues, works and makes money. Next to a woman, he wants to be himself, to relax, to enjoy, but he again has to strain and even pretend not to be who he is.
Let's find out about the differences between a wise and intelligent woman
- The man stumbled. A smart woman will definitely point out this mistake to her man, and will certainly add what she told him, etc. Wise will wave to this with his hand, he will not scold, but instead will support, cheer up, and maybe even pretend that there is nothing at all It happened.
- In a critical situation, an intelligent woman will definitely try to take the solution of the problem into her own hands, and will begin to teach the man how to live right. A wise woman, even if she wants to, will be inactive, but will only direct the man in the right direction, and then she will simply support him.
- A smart woman will force children to cram math and foreign languages, and a wise woman will first of all see them as personalities!
- In the workplace, an intelligent woman strives to avoid mistakes, and does as much as possible than others. This always leads to the fact that colleagues begin to be wary of such an employee. Trust is lost, tension is felt. But the wise will try to make friends with all colleagues, creating a warm atmosphere in the team.
- An intelligent woman will take care of even grown-up children. She will teach them about life, how to educate children, she will give unsolicited advice. A wise woman from childhood sees personalities in her children, and in the future she will allow them to live by themselves, making mistakes and gaining experience. And she will not read lectures in difficult situations, but will always support.
- An intelligent woman will not tolerate the attacks of her mother-in-law, she will argue, criticize, condemn, swear over everything. A wise woman, regardless of what kind of relationship she develops with her second mother, will calmly listen to her in silence, with a smile, agreeing, but doing in her own way.
- A smart lady is trying to change everyone and everything around. A wise woman tries to change herself, and she accepts people who they are.
- An intelligent woman is sure that the one who is right is happy. The wise, on the other hand, knows that the right is the one who is happy!
A wise woman is able to get pleasure from small things, she can extinguish an incipient scandal, she does not pretend to be offended. She just lives in harmony with herself, and everyone should strive for this!
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