Nowadays, more and more young people choose the so-called civil marriage.
And if earlier, in almost all cases, it was the desire of men, now many women do not consider it necessary to tie the knot.
But does this mean that women have stopped wanting it?
My opinion is that no. That this trend is just a model of behavior imposed on women, which is beneficial exclusively to men. And deep down, each of them dreams of being a lawful wife.
After all, whatever one may say, this is the only way to officially declare your intention to be with this woman and take responsibility. And men are in trouble nowadays with responsibility. Maybe this is due to the fact that women have become more available, and it is not necessary to get married in order to get everything a man wants. Or society itself is promoting such a model to the masses, and many unconsciously get used to the fact that such relations are the norm.
But, the article is about something else. How do you get a man to marry? We read below.
1. The first step is not to live with him on the same territory and build a life, buy equipment and furniture together, etc. and so on. Until he proposes to you and you set a wedding day.
2. Further, you shouldn't devote more than 50% of your free time to it. It is advisable to do this only if he invites you, for example, at his expense, to relax. Well, any of his initiatives, in which he invests emotionally and financially, can be used in his favor.
3. You don't need to play the role of housekeeper and cook. You are just his girlfriend, who spends time with him in pleasure, until he took responsibility for you, that is, did not marry. You can sometimes pamper him with some signature dish, but do not turn it into a routine. Still have time.
4. And the last thing. Always be at arm's length for him so that he understands that you are not his, that you are still just a friend and he has no right to prohibit or point you to something. So that he understands that you can leave him and does not take you for granted. You are a free woman, not tied by the knot and before the marriage proposal, you do not need to play husband and wife. This is the time to decide if you should be with this man or not.
If you behave this way, a loving man who is serious and ready for marriage will definitely want to to make you his wife, in order to be sure that you also take responsibility and are ready to share with him life.
After all, marriage is not only love. This is caring, respect and responsibility for each other. And until the man takes this step, there is a possibility that he does not see you in the role of his wife.
P.S. The problem for women is that, being afraid of losing a man, they lose themselves and, as a result, remain at a broken trough, having lost their self-respect. Do not waste time on men who are unworthy and do not respect your wishes.
Love and be loved, but do not allow yourself to be used.
