15 September 2021 19:20
Forest Tamara
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The child wants an iPhone - what to do?
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Children are monkeys. They need everything that adults use and that will cause a "wow" effect among their peers. How to respond to requests if a child wants an iPhone. What to do?
Parents are ready to do everything for their child, and that's okay. But the question of whether to buy a smart smartphone for a child turns into a dilemma. After all, by and large, you allow the baby to go out into the adult world. Internet, social networks, games, etc. - all this in the use of inept pens and an unstable psyche can give unpredictable results. So what do you do?
Buy!
- Of course, digitalization of everything dictates new rules. Yes, and Covid showed that online classes, zoom-lessons are already a reality. The phone will allow you to be in the stream, not to lag behind, there is an opportunity at any time to contact a teacher or classmates on messengers, and check an unfamiliar word in a search engine.
- The iPhone is a sign of the coolness of its owner. Remember how in childhood it was a shame when everyone has, for example, a scooter, but you do not. The phone is the same.
- The most important "yes" to the iPhone - you will always be in touch with your child. Where is he when he came home. And in general, kids write in messengers more often, and you have a chance that now they will inform about all the news.
The most important thing is "yes" to the iPhone - you will always be in touch with your child / istockphoto.com
- When a child has his own phone, he stops terrorizing you with his: "Mom, give me a tablet / iPhone."
Do not buy!
- Most primary school children are very disorganized and scattered. This is typical of age, and here you need to make decisions - are you ready that your phone may be lost?
- Is your child easily persuaded by elders? Can he easily give a phone if high school students ask him, for example, or children from the playground? If the answer is yes, then it is better to wait with the phone.
- If the baby does not know the basic safety rules and behaves carelessly, it is worth considering. It's not a good idea to light up the road with your phone at night or show your phone in a crowd of strangers.
- It's no secret that the Internet is fraught with thousands of pitfalls. What can I say, sometimes adults are "led" to win a car, and a beautiful blinking picture with a call is enough for a kid, and now he is in the hands of scammers.
- The gadget can affect child's academic performance at school. Think, is it worth it?
A gadget can affect a child's performance at school / istockphoto.com
- Most toddlers don't understand the difference between an iPhone and another modern smartphone. They just want it because it's trendy. Why does he need it?
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