Answer “yes”, “no”, “don't know” to 15 questions of our test and find out who you really are - captain or passenger, leader or follower, leader or subordinate
- I always feel responsible for what is happening in my life.
- I would not have so many problems if the people around me changed their attitude towards me.
- I do not act, but reflect on the reasons for my failures.
- It seems to me that I was born (born) under an unlucky star.
- Alcoholics themselves are to blame for their illness.
- I think that people are responsible for a lot in my life, under whose influence I became like that.
- If I catch a cold, I prefer to heal myself.
- Others are most often to blame for my absurdity and aggressiveness.
- Any problem can be solved.
- I help people because I am grateful for what others have done for me.
- If there is a conflict, then, thinking about who is to blame for it, I usually start with myself (myself).
- If a black cat crosses my path, I cross to the other side of the street.
- Every person, regardless of the circumstances, must be strong and independent.
- I know my flaws, but I want others to treat them condescendingly.
- I usually put up with a situation that I cannot influence.
Are you the leader or the follower? / istockphoto.com
The key to the test
For each “Yes” answer to questions 1, 3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13 and a “No” answer to questions 2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, 15, you receive 10 points. For answers “I don’t know” - 5 points each.
Test results
100-150 points
You are the “captain” of your own life and you feel responsible for everything that happens to you, you take on a lot, overcome difficulties without exaggerating them or raising them to the rank of life problems. However, remember that the captain also at least sometimes needs a safe haven - allow yourself to rest and at least partially delegate your responsibilities: you are the "captain", which means that you cannot control the ship and clean at the same time. German It is also very important to remember that it is sometimes difficult to be near such an ideal as you, because you are too demanding of others.
50-99 points
You are willing to be "helmsman", but you can, if necessary, transfer the helm to the right hands. Flexibility, discretion and sensitivity are your allies. You inspire others and set an example. You should write books and conduct trainings on how to live harmoniously and enjoy it. Your day "makes" your inner state and mood, regardless of the weather and political situation. Creative activities, painting, dancing, travel can support your condition.
Up to 49 points
You blame anyone for your difficulties, but not yourself. True independence seems unattainable to you. This does not mean that you should blame yourself for everything, just try to take responsibility for what is happening, predict the development of events and the way out of situations. How? Take a piece of paper and write down what you want in different areas of your life (from personal to public) and proceed according to the plan.
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