They say that wisdom comes over the years, and that before a woman becomes wise and conscious, she will have grandchildren. But, everything is not so simple.
There are women who, with their mother's milk, absorb the very wisdom who, at birth, are endowed with those character traits that are considered to be wisdom. Plus, if the girl's mother is wise, then this is a fertile ground for the growth of awareness.
And so, a wise woman (girl, girl). What is she like?
1. Wise girls show their essence even in childhood.
They are inquisitive and judicious beyond their years. They are interested in everything and they can be unbearable in their desire to explore this world. Of course, they, like all children, are hooligans and are not spared by a teenage flurry of hormones. But, they do not let stupidity take over and often look arrogant and boring.
2. Wise girls won't let guys manipulate them.
No matter how painful they are, they always put self-esteem above all else and release in peace those who offend them. This applies not only to love, but also to friendship. They carefully choose their circle of contacts and do not litter it with mean and evil people.
3. Wisdom is manifested in the ability not to accumulate anger in oneself.
Such girls know how to switch her to more useful activities. It may seem that this requires special skills, but no, this skill sits deep inside. I think each of you has seen girls who accept adversity with a smile and continue to go forward with even greater zeal, not noticing anything around.
4. A wise woman does not nag her husband, but changes him if he is unbearable.
She does not ask her husband to entertain her, she always has something to do with herself. She has many hobbies and does not marry to improve her life. She gets married out of the abundance of what she has, when she wants to share what she has. But not in any way in order to take away something, and certainly not out of boredom or the obligation imposed by society to "be married."
5. A wise woman is kind, but fair.
It is not difficult for her to forgive the offender, but she never forgets the sad experience and will be more careful next time. But this does not in any way affect the course of her life, she does not allow the fear of failure to take possession of herself. She goes forward, but realizes that this experience makes her smarter and bolder.
Perhaps all of the above can be called determination, intelligence and courage. But what is wisdom? It is a combination of many factors that ultimately lead to a more productive, happier, and fulfilling life.
Many get hung up on the past, the future, but forget about the present. They hold themselves back because of self-doubt and past failures, are afraid of new relationships or change jobs for the same reason. They ask questions:
Do you remember what happened last time?
Aren't you afraid of what this will lead to?
Wisdom is in understanding the world and knowing that life is too short and you need to live it with love for yourself and as you want.
