This can happen to anyone. And women often blame themselves for what is happening. And, unfortunately, they are right.
Men can also be guilty, but they are not in the mood for change, they adjust to the prevailing circumstances and move on. But a woman, if she is not satisfied with this state of affairs, can change the situation in her favor, paying attention to the following things:
1. You have launched yourself.
In the "candy-bouquet" period, all of us, being under the influence of hormones and falling in love, become the best versions of ourselves. And after receiving the coveted stamp in the passport, or the beginning of the joint "living-being", the woman relaxes and ceases to take care of herself.
This does not mean that you need to meet your husband in evening dresses and makeup every day. Elementary grooming should be. Clean hair, well-groomed hands, and nice house clothes will do just fine. And do not forget that completeness is not a sentence! You can always adjust your diet and pull yourself together.
2. You are ready and agree to everything.
Let's go back to the question of the "candy-bouquet" period. At that moment, you were just getting to know each other and were interested in a man as something unknown. And when you surrendered to him, you began to behave like his property. Your interests revolve around his person and your family. He does not need to conquer you, and even more so, he does not need to study you at all, because you are in front of him like an open book.
Try to be less approachable and surround yourself with interests. Then the man will be curious to know you again.
3. The man works hard.
It is difficult to combine hard work and family life. And if you think that with the help of intimacy a man can relax, then you are mistaken.
A man needs to spend time and energy on a woman, which, due to his great employment, he simply does not have. And this is important to understand.
Men are not robots, and not everything revolves around one place. All people get tired, and if you are worried about this, arrange a day off for your husband, give him a rest and gain strength. And after a good rest, he will definitely want to be alone with you.
4. The man is sick.
Any chronic diseases affect life, and if a man is sick, then he may simply not be up to it all. It is generally accepted that a man is ready in any state. But this is not so, a man is also a man (well, really ???). He may feel bad and then he will not care about your romantic impulses.
5. You are not interesting to him as a person and an interlocutor.
At first, this is not noticed, but after a while you can move away from each other, precisely because of the inability to conduct a conversation and discuss something. The commonality of views and conversations are very uniting and if you have problems with understanding, then you simply become strangers, and the man does not even know how to approach you.
And when your lives do not touch at all, apart from everyday issues, this can cause distance from each other.
6. You take everything for granted.
Behavior model also plays an important role. For a man in a relationship, you need to feel needed, and what is there to hide, he wants to be a hero.
Learn to say thank you and please, it's that easy! And don't be afraid to over praise. A kind word is pleasant to everyone.
You don't have to take a course to keep the passion alive. At the intuitive level, a woman has a function to maintain relationships, and empathy helps to feel a person.
If you love a man, you don’t need to invent something, dress beautifully, save him from worries, please him and praise him for everything he does for you. If it doesn't work right away, believe me, after a while he will still give up.
And if the situation is the opposite, then make him hunt for you and you will be happy!
