As we all know, men and women are completely different, both physically and emotionally. The mood of a man is not so much dependent on hormones, and in general they are more rational and logical in their actions.
Therefore, they often talk about male stinginess on emotions, and female excessive emotionality.
The above explains a lot, but, unfortunately, it does not always help couples to understand each other.
Let's try in this article to understand male love and why it suddenly happens.
1. First of all, a man falls in love with the image.
Men love with their eyes and if your type is in his subconscious, he will certainly pay attention to you. Its taste depends on many factors. You may be like his first school love or the teacher he admired. Also, you may be like his mom when he was young, or some other relative who made him feel.
2. The second is, of course, your manner of communication.
And preferences still depend on men's tastes, which were formed at the age of 12-14 years. At this age, the psyche is very sensitive, and the images that impressed, liked and aroused love remain with a man for life. And if you match his picture from the past, he will definitely want to return these feelings by being with you.
3. The third is your behavior with a man.
Let's imagine a man as a boy. Did my mother run to him at the first call and sit beside him day and night? This happens, but rarely. Basically, mothers do not stand on ceremony in their upbringing and try to raise a man in a boy. She was not shy in expressions and was not afraid to tell him that he was behaving inappropriately. And she certainly did not allow herself to behave like a boor with her. If this happened, then he was punished and deprived of sweets, for example. And if he did a bad deed, then he "raked" so that it would not seem a little. And if you behave with him like a self-respecting woman, he will definitely not be able to resist. Especially if in the first two paragraphs he liked you.
As you can see from the above, everything that we like comes from childhood. At the time, we were carefree and naive. And the feelings that we experienced were the first and most sincere.
Therefore, all this was imprinted in my head for life, if not in the form of clear memories, then at the subconscious level, for sure. This is impossible to repeat, but everyone strives to at least mentally return to these sensations.