Women have been asking this question for many years and there is still no clear answer when it is already possible to go to a closer relationship, but at the same time not seem too approachable and not ruin the relationship?
The same question is often asked by men, but only if they really like the woman, and they are afraid to scare her away with their persistence and show that they “only need this”.
Let's try to understand this issue in this article.
To begin with, if you are an adult, then by law and by mutual consent, you can right away.
But, if you want a serious relationship, then you should still wait and understand the person's true attitude towards you before taking the next step.
The following signs will help, which indicate that the date is worth continuing:
1. You see a clear interest in you. He is interested in how you live, what you are fond of. He listens to you with curiosity and literally looks into your mouth.
2. Your communication is not like a hunter-prey. You don't get embarrassed by his greasy looks and unambiguous hints.
3. He talks about the next appointments and plans them, knowing your schedule. And also "probes" how interested you are in him for further communication.
4. Your communication is similar to communication between two friends, but there is clearly a spark between you. But, he does not go too far and does not violate your personal space.
5. He doesn't ask questions about your previous partners and when you last had it.
These are the kind of questions you should ask on your first date. And if you really feel comfortable, then you shouldn't rush to bed right away. Rushing to get close is not a good idea. For such a step, it is desirable to get to know the person better.
But making a second date would be a better idea.
If you hurry, you will most likely not relax and feel uncomfortable. And thereby spoil everything without even starting.
But, if it is very strong, go for it. But, be prepared for the fact that you feel used, and the man who was interested in you will not perceive you the way you would like.
To sum up, I want to write that situations are different and even a quick transition to a horizontal position ended in a happy marriage.
But, if this is really love, then I think that you can wait a couple of dates.
