This can be your relative, friend, or significant other. He behaves very nicely, which cannot but sow suspicion in your head. Very often it is these people who discover their essence later, and it turns out to be just awful!
Here are the signs that tell you that you have a terrible person next to you.
He does not allow the thought that he could be wrong.
Anyone can be wrong, we are imperfect. And some mistakes are very difficult to fix. But there is nothing wrong with apologizing and learning from what has been done. And so an ordinary person can even be ashamed of his act, but a terrible one - no! He never admits his mistakes, he does not care about others. A person can be decent and honest either with everyone or with no one!
He considers himself the center of the universe
He considers himself the best, thinks that he is better than the rest - he is smarter, more successful, more beautiful. For him, the thought that someone can bypass him is simply unbearable, which is why he often takes offense, humiliates and criticizes others.
He speaks badly about people
As I said, he considers himself to be the most ideal, and the rest, respectively, are bad for him. He criticizes, condemns others, gossips about them, saying something bad. And this has already become a habit with him. He seems to hate everyone around him.
He constantly taunts everyone
There is nothing wrong with the fact that a person can play a trick on someone. But it's really bad when ridicule begins that hurt others. Excessive sarcasm can turn into an effective means of insulting, humiliating and even destroying people. This suggests that a person is arrogant, soulless, and he does not care about the feelings of others. He, on the contrary, gives indescribable pleasure to insult and humiliation of others.
He requires constant attention.
After all, he is so incomparable, beloved and unique, he considers himself the best, the center of the Universe, and literally demands to be admired, to be worshiped. Of course, all people like attention to their person. This is how we begin to feel significant and important. But for the sake of this we will not constantly look for ways to get absolutely under any circumstances and in any companies "on the stage" in order to applaud us! If you notice that a person even puts on a drama for the sake of "fame", to be paid attention to, to be praised, then this is a bad sign. Over time, things will only get worse. A person will begin to demand more and more admiration and worship from you, and if he does not receive this, he will find where to get it on the side.
He sees a solid negative around
It is clear that we all periodically run negative thoughts into our heads. Well, we are real people, we face problems, sometimes not knowing how to solve them, very unpleasant situations happen in our life. But a terrible person always has one negative around. He sees bad in everyone, any situation is unbearable for him. He is a pessimist, and spills his negativity in different directions. After communicating with him, you yourself involuntarily begin to think about the bad. He sucks out the positive from those around him, turning them into a puppet. He imposes his negative opinion, which is then very difficult to get rid of.
Such terrible people steal our happiness and joy. Therefore, you need to avoid them. No one will do this for you, love yourself, appreciate yourself, and do not become a doll in the hands of such a puppeteer!
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