How does a wise woman behave? What exactly does her wisdom show? Unfortunately, many women are sure that if they have been married a hundred times, have two or three children, or are in their fifties, then they are definitely wise and have the right to teach others. In most cases, such ladies, struck by experience, are far from wise, and not even smart! I am telling you the basic rules of a wise woman!
She always listens to the interlocutor
She does not interrupt, does not convict of being wrong, does not try to impose her opinion: "It seems to me that ...", "I would have done wrong" - all this can definitely not be said by a wise woman. Yes, when a wise woman is asked for advice, she will utter such phrases, but she herself will definitely not bother with her opinion. Listening to the interlocutor, she turns what he said in her head, and does not think that she would have such a mega clever answer!
She respects people
She does not care about the status of a person; she will treat a businessman, a janitor, an adult, and a youth with equal respect. She will not look at anyone with a contemptuous look, with condemnation, haughty laughing. She knows that everyone has their own weaknesses, and no one is perfect, but this does not destroy her respect for people.
She is not afraid of being alone
She doesn't think loneliness is the worst thing in life. She is a whole person, and is quite capable of luring herself with something interesting and important, even alone. Even being in a relationship, she will not use the phrases: "Kolya and I have decided ..." or "And here we are with Serezha ...". She speaks for herself. And she can calmly spend time without a partner, she is able to exist without him, and she will not get depressed because of this.
She always smiles
Even when she is in a bad mood, she smiles, and it cheers her up. When she smiles, she makes everyone around her happy. And also, due to the fact that there is always a smile on her face, no one can even think that she has some kind of setbacks in life. She does not make a sour face, spoiling the whole holiday, the mood of people with it. She just smiles, and this makes everyone around her feel good!
She backs up her words with deeds
A wise woman will never scatter her words and promises just like that, she always backs them up with actions. She knows that it is either better not to promise anything, or to promise and do. It will not happen that she, for example, promised to help you, but then did not help, and began to excuse herself with phrases: "Sorry, it did not depend on me", "I overslept", "I forgot."
She praises her man
It is foolish to think that men do not need praise. On the contrary, even if they are self-sufficient and self-confident, they sometimes so want to hear something pleasant in their address. A wise woman constantly praises her man, and from this he becomes her better, even stronger, even more self-confident.
She keeps track of her budget
She can make money herself, or her man is the earner of finance. But in any case, she competently manages finances. She, of course, does not deny herself a trip to a cafe or buying a beautiful dress, but she knows that there are more important needs, and always keeps balance.
She doesn't criticize anyone
A wise woman will not criticize everyone right and left. She herself radiates positive, and tries to see good qualities in people.
She supports her beloved man
Any man needs understanding and support. A wise woman knows this. Therefore, she listens to her man, letting him know that he is not alone. She shows him that they will solve any problems together, listens to his feelings, gives advice, which is very important for a man.
Being a wise woman is a real art, but, unfortunately, not everyone is capable of comprehending it!
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