Don't be afraid of your enemies. You need to be more careful with friends who flatter and try to please you in everything. It often happens that you communicate with a person for a long time, trust him in everything, and as a result, it is from him that all the troubles begin. I suggest you learn how to identify ill-wishers in your social circle.
Here are the signs of a bad person
- He is selfish, focused only on himself. He lives in his own little world, where he is the center of the Universe. Did you pay attention to the fact that he is not at all happy about your successes, he does not even want to listen to your problems, he does not care what happened there, how was your day? He will always turn the conversation around so that conversations go about his achievements, and the situations develop necessarily well for him.
- He distorts the facts on purpose, to the point where you start to believe the lies he tells you. And distorting information no longer seems to you nonsense. He often deceives you, adds fictional information to events. And he does all this to get some benefit.
- He often does not tell you about something. If the truth is revealed, he comes up with some excuses. Let's say, "I forgot" or "I didn't think it was important to you." He never tells the whole truth if it cannot be distorted.
- He turns other people against you, he makes others know about your secrets, about your, possibly, bad deeds, and incites all of you to criticize, of course, participating in everything this.
- He likes to embellish facts. All this is only for the sake of obtaining benefits and achieving the desired goal.
- He has no conscience at all. He is devoid of fear, empathy, without hesitation violates norms and even laws. He is manipulative, cold-blooded, rude, and no one will be able to re-educate him.
- He always blames others for everything, and never admits his guilt. He will not apologize if his dishonest behavior comes up. No one will be able to bring him to justice.
- He manipulates people. Depending on the situation, he puts on one or another mask, and it is very difficult to see his true face. He turns everything over in such a way that you do what he wants, think the way he wants. He imposes his opinion, persuades you to go where you did not plan, etc.
- He doesn't help you. It is in those moments when you need advice or his helping hand that it merges, disappears. Comes up with urgent matters. In fact, he doesn't care about your problems, he even likes it when you are not doing well. The only thing he can help you with is to go even deeper to the very bottom. Your successes and victories for him are like a red rag for a bull. Very often it is these people who become the cause of our troubles.
- He wants to control everyone around and all situations that occur. And this also applies to you. He needs to control you in order to feel superior to you, to be higher than you, better, more important. To do this, he will use a variety of methods. For example, he makes you doubt your own words, what you saw, your moral principles, etc.
As sad as it may sound, but recently there are more and more such people - immoral, manipulative, heartless, selfish. Therefore, you just need to be vigilant, then your life will be happy and cloudless.
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