Unfortunately, it is rare for men to pass on the basic male commandments to their sons. Some fathers shift all the moments of upbringing to mothers, someone simply cannot raise a true man in a son due to lack of time. Most of the commandments have to be done through mistakes and pain. Psychologist Alexander Shakhov decided to share his experience and male commandments. I hope you have already grasped them?
The commandments of a real man
Always keep your word
A man is associated with reliability, and it is determined precisely by whether he can keep his word or not. This is what separates the male gender from Conchita Wurst, who has long hair, a beard, a dress and something between her legs. If you do not keep your word to your woman, friends, child and even your enemy, then you can safely wear a dress! I think you will have plenty of fans. Yes, that's so rude! If you made the choice to be a man, then you must keep your word! You must be reliable!
Do not dismiss
All men in childhood were told not to cry, because men! It was very disappointing. Moreover, boys can whine for the reason that they are scared or hurt. And so they will know that the world will not show pity when you are helpless, as soon as you give weakness, they will immediately crush you, humiliate, destroy you. Therefore, real men in the past cried, fell, wiped away tears with their fists, and rose up as men. But, at what point the world suddenly turned upside down, and men began to allow themselves: "I'm tired", "I can't go to work", "the state is robbing us."
And all this pours out on their wives. They shout, humiliate with betrayal, inattention, manipulate feelings. But this is all that turns them into weaklings! “To be a man” is to take your butt off the couch and go to get money for your family, and not whine that everything is bad while watching football and sipping beer. No need to whine, you need to act. You need to fight, win or die. If you are lying on the couch and whining, you know, you are dead, the man is dead in you, you already smell of rotten stuff and fermented beer, and you feel sorry for even "amen."
Survive in any conditions
In our society, somehow everything turned upside down. Men are increasingly out of work, whine from the difficulties in life, and women pull the whole family on themselves, work from morning to night, and raise children. A real man must be able to survive, which means that he must develop constantly, learn something new, and provide his family with a decent life.
Always learn
No need to turn into a smart guy, repeating "I know everything." You can always learn, say, making money, becoming the best earner. Study psychology and diplomacy to be able to negotiate with people. It is important to study the psychology of women, because the way you treat a lady is fully reflected in your relationship with her. In vain you think that you can handle any woman, they are like explosives, they can break. And how to install explosives if you do not understand this? You have a choice. Either to become always and day after day better, providing comfort to your family, or to be a fool who "knows everything himself."
Avarice is the lot of weaklings
And generosity, respectively, is the lot of the strong in spirit, great, generous. There is nothing worse than a greedy man. A man should be generous and confident that if he gives his last 100 rubles now, he will be able to get more. A stingy man is worthy of contempt! And this is not only about money, but also about attention and compliments to a woman. Generosity is a victory over oneself, over one's own fear, pettiness and selfishness.
Not to seem strong, but to be so
You can be with a bunch of biceps, with a beard, wear branded things, but this will not make you strong! A strong person is confident and calm, a weakling who tries to look strong, hides fear and confusion behind his appearance, mixed with aggression. Strength should be in the support of loved ones, in the ability to create a happy life for your wife and children. That's the power! Strong is the one who conquered himself! And also strength is in kindness!
The man is the one who acts
Men are born for action. They have a mind capable of analyzing a situation without unnecessary emotions, they are able to choose the right strategy, they are purposeful. And also men have a will, a strong character and strong hands. All this allows them not to give up in times of difficulty, not to give in to panic, uncertainty, and resist fear. But! Absolutely everything will be simply useless if you do not act. Only the cowardly are inactive. There can be no excuse for inaction.
Man is a breadwinner
In ancient times, men didn't need to be motivated to go and get a mammoth, right? What now? All men whine that women only need money from them, they only demand, and they themselves sit at home and do nothing do, and "do nothing" means a decree with a baby in her arms, cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing. Is this right? And, by the way, women also manage to combine work with all this. And the man will keep whining: "I have no money." A man must earn money not only in order to support his family, but also in order to say to himself: "I am a man." “How can you make money here, if taxes, everything is plundered, extortions are all around?”. And you tell this to the girls, like Lilia Nilova and Masha Solodar. Somehow they are spinning, earning a lot of dollars, while many men lie in front of the TV set, drinking beer, and sigh how bad everything is in their life.
Stop whining, hunting has always been hard, that's why men did it! Don't know how? Go and learn. If you don't want to, then don't fool women. They want real men, not seals, which only add to the problems. Believe me, it's better without a man at all than with such spineless ones.
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