Many men behave in relationships like little proud capricious boys, and then wonder: “What was wrong with her? Why did she leave me? " In general, we women do not even know how men can suffer after parting.
In the movies, we are shown that they do not lose their fighting spirit, their love for life does not stop. Let's say someone goes to bars, someone is immersed in work, but everyone is sure to think about how to get their beloved back. In fact, most men just don't even realize how much they loved their woman until parting comes.
Many men consider themselves to be very strong, courageous, they are not used to "bowing down" to anyone. So the lady explains to such a self-confident that he behaves inappropriately, speaks offensively against her, allows himself to be rude, etc., but he does not seem to understand. Well, maybe she really doesn't understand, and she leaves, pretty much worn out with him. And the realization that the relationship is over and that the woman has left comes only after a while. Here is a man looking longingly at the shelves in the bathroom and realizes that there is no cosmetic bag, boxes of tampons, all kinds of creams. Day looks, two, three, begins to yearn, and thoughts appear: "How to get her back?"
But you just need to start behaving like a man, and not like a boy!
First step
Before you start returning a woman, it's important to understand why she left. She may even have told you why she is leaving, so remember! Maybe you were too fixated on your affairs, at work, maybe you did not share your feelings with her, and women love sincere conversations, well, or, in front of your beloved, had the audacity to look at a pretty lady gender?
In fact, more often than not, a woman has no reason to leave a man. There can be a whole bunch of things in there. Men are more likely to break up for one general reason, for example, "fell out of love", or "tired of her tantrums." And women have many reasons. They do not leave immediately, but endure for a long time, accumulate in themselves, probably expecting that everything can still change. And then something happens that becomes the last straw. And you will have to disassemble all that has accumulated in your woman's head.
The "you" factor
Men, when they want to return a woman, focus on her, but they need to focus on themselves. Until you show her that you have changed, become better, she will definitely not return to you. Yours will not work: "Sorry, I won't do this anymore, I love you, I can't live without you." Will not help! Perhaps not only you, but also your beloved are to blame for the breakdown of your relationship, but do you want to get back together with her? This means that you will have to change something in yourself. At this step, many men wave their hand and try to forget their partner, simultaneously looking for one that will accept them "with all their giblets", sins and flaws. Well, go ahead!
Time
For those who have not stopped reading the article on the last paragraph, having waved their hand and disappointed in all women, I will say that it will be difficult. It will take time to get the woman back. You won't be able to do it in one or two days. Just like relationships, it takes time for them to reach new levels, change, improve, in order to get everything right, you will have to work long and painstakingly.
When you break up, then both are in bad emotions and mood. Both you and your woman need time to think things over, to understand yourself, to come to your senses. Here the mistake of some men is that they can start thinking about everything that happened in the company of other ladies, in bars, thereby only aggravating their situation, and cutting off their "way back."
Do not rush to write messages to a woman, call, load her with flowers. You will most likely only annoy her with this. It is better to let her cool down a little, recover, do not bother her, she may even miss you and start thinking about you.
Men, it's time to stop acting like naughty boys! Well, you were called the stronger sex for a reason, you must protect and protect us. Why are you so proud and self-confident in the wrong place? If your woman is dear to you, it's time to change for the sake of a strong and happy relationship with her!
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