Leonid and Marina have been together for over ten years. They have an apartment, good income, two wonderful children. The family is simply exemplary, many even envy them, because from the outside they seem so good and happy. But this is only from the outside. Few people know the problem that has been between spouses for a very long time.
No, in general, everything is fine, only Marina does not know how to keep her mouth shut at all. And here it's not that she swears at her husband, as someone thought. The point is that absolutely everything that happens in the family becomes the property of the public. It's so sad when you can't tell your soul mate absolutely everything! Everything that Leonid says to Marina in a few minutes goes to the people! The mother-in-law finds out about everything, then the father-in-law, then the best friends, colleagues, neighbors, sister, and a dozen more random people. By what criteria Marina chooses, to whom and what information it is better to tell - it is generally unclear.
At first, Leonid tried to influence his wife by talking. He explained that family secrets should not be divulged, that everyone around should not be aware of what her husband was telling her in secret. After all, husband and wife, as they say, are one Satan. In any case, they have to talk about something, and even discuss someone, right? And is it normal that only now the spouse speaks his opinion, and then half of the city will find out about him?
Tried Leonid to influence Marina and scandals. But she doesn't seem to understand that she is doing something wrong! It doesn't reach her! Now Leonid has developed a new tactic. It became much easier for him to keep his spouse in the dark. God forbid, to blurt out something too much, and then it turns into unpleasant conversations outside their family. People are already looking askance at the man, and all because of his wife. So now, when Leonid simply does not tell her anything, she began to take offense, says that if her husband does not trust her, how can they be considered a happy family. They have nothing to talk about now.
Well, of course, Marina tells her husband all the gossip in the evenings that she collected during the day. But he tries not to enter into the discussion, but only to nod in response, somewhere to shake his head, somewhere to laugh. And so that to express your opinion - no. Leonid, of course, trusts his wife, the bad one does not consider her and loves her very much. But telling her about something is like updating statuses on Instagram. But Instagram seems to have much less reach than his spouse's communication skills.
Once a man told his wife that he really wanted to buy a car. The city is big, two children, a car would be useful. Although you can get to work by public transport, and your wife is taken by work transport, well, and the kindergarten with the school is generally across the street from home. But still, I really want the car.
So, Leonid told his wife about this, and did not have time to get to work, as a lot of people already knew about it. The chief approached him and asked what kind of car he was going to take! It's amazing! The news from Marina immediately reached her close friend. A friend, also a gossip lover, immediately called her distant relative. Well, she told the information to her husband, who is Leonid's boss!
It took less than 40 minutes for the information to spread among the people! And here's how to be here? And the wife is still surprised why the husband does not tell her anything. What is there to be surprised at!
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