Almost all women who faced treason paid attention that their rival is an order of magnitude worse than themselves.
She is not so beautiful, not well-groomed, she is dumber and not self-confident.
Therefore, the deceived wives are perplexed and think, how can this be? Why is she? Have you seen her? It’s impossible! How could he! And so on, so on, so on ...
Why is this happening? Why do men choose these women for themselves? Why would they risk their family in this relationship? Why are ugly men attracted to men?
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Here in your family there was a discord, you moved away and for some time trying to improve relations. Somewhere it turns out, somewhere not, you try and slowly everything is getting better.
It happens that such "grinding" lasts for years and, as a rule, at this time she appears, your potential homewrecker.
This woman can be a colleague or an old friend, maybe even an ex-girlfriend who cannot arrange her personal life in any way. They start talking about how awful everyone is around them and how hard it is for them to live.
In the case of the husband, we are talking about the wife (that is, about you) with whom the relationship has deteriorated. In the case of a rival, we are talking about a lot of men who offended her, including, most likely, her father, who either abandoned her as a child, or was cold and indifferent to her all his life.
That is, I want to say that women do not enter into such a relationship because of a good life. And for the most part, they are extremely unsure of themselves, they are even afraid to choose a man for themselves, therefore they choose those whom someone has already chosen and tested. They are so calmer.
A married man is such a woman and a relationship with her only plays into the hands. She will be silent and afraid to say something. She is used to a cold attitude and indifference, she is used to being thrown and hurt.
Do you think men are monsters? Not at all. It all happens instinctively. The victim herself reaches out to her executioner, at the moment when they need each other. In the future, the connection becomes strong and the woman falls on the hook.
By the way, 90% of men still on the shore say that they will never leave their wife. But, for some reason, most women ignore these words.
So why are these women worse than wives?
To begin with, a man chooses a wife for a reason. This happens at the level of instinct, he sees in her not just a partner in bed, but also the mother of their future children, a friend and beloved. For him, she is a woman with whom you can talk, the one who will support and, if necessary, put in place! Men marry based on these criteria and they rarely question their decision. They don't want to change anything.
A woman who is less attractive and less confident is an easier target. She herself falls into the hands of such men. She begins to listen and support the unfaithful husband, scolding his bad wife with him, pitying and helping him to cope with his "grief".
Therefore, in the eyes of a man, she is a "weak link". He is not afraid that she will climb, but he is sure that she will stay with him and will continue to "comfort" him until he gets tired of it.
Would a smart, beautiful and confident woman waste her time with a married man? More likely no than yes.
Therefore, looking at your rival, do not be surprised. This is because these women doom themselves to such a life. And men take advantage of it.
