It is only through respect that the necessary conditions for order and peace are built. But someone will say that he is not obliged to respect everyone in a row. Yes, you can respect parents, children, boss, work colleagues, friends, but is it worth respecting those you don't like? But a strong society is built on mutual respect! You should not look for reasons and excuses for yourself, so as not to respect your neighbor! Better, on the contrary, is to learn about the reasons for respect, even those who are unpleasant to you.
Are you probably not very positive too? And you are absolutely not going to respect those who do not deserve it, who you do not like, etc.? Don't jump to conclusions. Sometimes your disrespect can even extend to your friends and family. Let's say you think that they somehow disrespect you, underestimate you, do not reckon with you, do not value you.
And I’ll tell you that even if you don’t want it at all, you need to respect everyone, because it’s useful! And I will give the reasons for this.
There will be no normal society without respect
This is one of the strongest features of our society - respect for everyone. After all, every member of the family, street, district, your city and your country deserves respect. Back in 1948, the UN adopted a declaration of human rights. And its goal is to convey to everyone that absolutely every member of society deserves respect, regardless of gender, social status, profession, race, nationality and lifestyle! And there can be no exceptions!
Respect will return even more respect
After all, good deeds always return to us with a vengeance. That is, if we show respect for a person, it begins to multiply. And even if you respect someone who doesn't deserve it, you will add value to him and even motivate him to change, becoming better. And due to the fact that some people are used to the fact that no one respects them, they themselves have ceased to respect others.
Respect is the foundation of any normal relationship.
A fruitful and lasting relationship is possible only if there is mutual respect in them. No one will like it if their emotional needs are ignored. And absolutely no one wants to feel indifference, charity, deprivation and humiliation! Here even take the relationship between a man and a woman. If you do not have respect for each other, then together you will not stay for long. Your relationship can be safely called toxic!
If there is respect, then there is trust.
Respect builds trust between people. As I said above, when you show your respect for people, you let them know that they are valuable! And this attracts them to you, they begin to trust you, healthy relationships are built. I do not argue, sometimes it is very difficult to respect everyone. But it is worthwhile to understand that this will be beneficial for yourself, and otherwise you can make enemies for yourself.
Respect makes a good impression of you
In fact, when people think of you, they do not remember how you looked, whether you lead a healthy lifestyle, what kind of work you are. They remember the feelings they experienced while being next to you. And if you treated them with respect, reverence, hospitality, smiled at them, perhaps even without their merit, you created a positive image of a person in their head. And they find you much more attractive than the rest.
Treat people with respect, then they will begin to respect you in return!
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