A man may say that he is just joking, but it is very unpleasant for you after such jokes, you feel humiliated and insulted. But for some reason, you continue to believe him, closing your eyes to his boorish behavior. Or maybe it's time to realize that you are not respected?
If there is disrespect in a relationship, then there is no love in them either. After all, if a person loves you, he will not humiliate you.
But it all starts with little things! Here are the signs that a man doesn't respect you!
He spends almost no time on you.
He constantly has some business, worries, absolutely everything is more important to him than you. And you already felt so sad without your gatherings with him, conversations, evenings spent together. You began to feel that he was avoiding you. He constantly cancels plans that concern you because he is always busy.
He became somehow secretive
You will find out about something, and he says that he simply did not want to disturb you, did not want you to worry. He hides that he saw his ex yesterday, and does not say that he gave a lift to a female colleague to the house. This is all disrespect, its secrecy.
He puts himself above you.
He does not allow you to meet with your girlfriends, go somewhere without him. He wants you to always sit at home, cook and clean. And he allows himself to relax with friends. Although you, like him, work, and deserve the right to rest.
He does not introduce you to anyone
You walk with him, meet his acquaintances, say hello, but he does not introduce you to them in any way. As if he suddenly forgets about you, you stand on the sidelines, and you see self-pity in the eyes of strangers.
He is rude to your family and friends.
All your friends are losers for him, your girlfriends are walkers, and your relatives are narrow-minded villagers. You try to get him to get along with people who are important to you, but he has no such plans.
He humiliates you
He constantly makes fun of you, but his words hurt you. He can even behave like that in front of strangers, and at such moments you want to hide in a corner and cry.
He does not acknowledge your accomplishments.
He cannot just take and rejoice at what you have achieved. And all because in the depths of his soul he considers himself worse and unworthy of you.
He behaves strangely on social media.
He looks at photos of half-naked girls, makes compliments to young ladies from the vastness of the Internet, likes their photos. People even have a question: are you together that he behaves this way?
He devalues your feelings.
You tell him something, but he doesn't seem to care, or he starts to freak out when you tell him about your feelings, claiming that you are overplaying and dramatizing. He just doesn't give a damn about your feelings.
He tries to control you
He believes that you are not able to make decisions, so he decides everything for you. He tells you who to be friends with and who not, what to wear and what not. Full control, right up to calls to girlfriends and meetings with acquaintances.
He ignores your boundaries
You ask him not to use foul language in front of your family, but he doesn't care. He can climb your phone, eat your food, call when you lay down to rest.
He lets others disrespect you.
It doesn't matter who it is - his relatives, friends or even strangers. He allows them to say whatever they want to you, and never comes to your defense.
Understand already, he clearly does not respect you, and you deserve more, you deserve love! So maybe it's time for you to part with him?
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